There are state run child support offices who will help enforce court-ordered child support - garnish paychecks, intercept tax returns etc. I do feel bad for GG for reasons I can't say here but suffice it to say, his week was NOT off to a good start when TH pulled the trigger (I assume we all know why and simply are not discussing). Poor man.
In order to get the court ordered child support, one would have to go to court to get it. That means lawyer costs.
That is what I am wondering. How does a person not on welfare get child support?
My husband had a business and he OFTEN got orders to take child support out of wages. If I remember correctly, it was 25% for one child?
They would whine and whine about the amount. My hubby told them they were darn lucky. He spent 100% of his income on his family. He had no sympathy whatsoever.
For 30 years I taught in low income schools. They were not filled with intact families. I got to see the tricks these guys played. Working under the table to avoid paying child support. Telling mothers they were going to take their kids away because---name your reason.
I had one child whose father, so to speak, was gunned down at age 25. In his obit, it listed 12 children by as many women.
Over the years, and I am not talking about myself as I have been married for decades, I would hear and read the things said about single mothers. Like I said, most fathers , so to speak, go on their merry way while mothers figure out a way to do it all