Faithx2
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Very good post. I have tried to see both sides and often think what would I do if I was in either families shoes. I usually wind up thanking God that I am not and praying for all the victims and what they are going through. You are right they dont know what Enrique's parents are thinking or feeling. None of us do. I think if they would just TALK to Christina's family this all could go a different way. No lawyers, no media, not the family going on the news to tell their side of the story like Enrique did... just a face to face, heart to heart between the mothers and fathers. Sometimes silence can be so cruel. We are human. We would rather hear something, anything, when we are hurting even if its not the truth or not what we want to hear. Sometimes the words I'm sorry are what we need to hear. I dont think those words will come from Enrique's mouth but coming from his parents would mean a lot to Christina's family.I can't help but to feel sorry for EA's mother too.
I don't know her (if I did I may either feel more or less sorry depending on what I personally felt about her before the crime came to light).
If I were in her shoes though, I'd be on the verge of a nervous breakdown anyway and the protesters might send me over the edge.
Anger could step in to replace my pain and result in me becoming LESS concerned about the feelings of the real victim's family.
Because, you see, I'd be feeling like a victim and a failure whose heart would be breaking along side of yours (but for different reasons).
If you knew me (and the perp was my son), you would know I've done everything in my power already (to find the answers for everyone) unsuccessfully.
By hounding me, you're assuming I've not been trying my best to get to the truth from my grown son.
You don't know me and I don't know you.
After all, he is my son so I'd be holding on to some hope he's not a cold blooded killer who is capable of hiding a corpse.
I don't think I'd be able to hold your hand until I came to grips with what happened myself. People may be asking too much from this mother at this time.
If people are assuming EA's mother knows where EA put Christina, you must know more than I do about the dynamics between this particular mother and son.
I do know as a mother I would go to the ends of the earth or like someone said from team Christina "to the edge of hell" for my child.
I won't judge or criticize but instead be understanding and empathetic.