Here are my thoughts....BD is scared to death, so here is a list of some of what I think she is scared of...not in any particular order.
1. Losing her job
2. Losing her Son
3. With #1 in mind...Losing her home
4. Losing her child support for either child if they are living elsewhere or never found
5. The fact is that SA has already been documented with a police report to have said he would kill her and and Hailey, so I think that after living with him for somewhere between 4 months and say 3 years that she is very well aware of the temperament of this man, and I think it has finally sunk into her head that he has followed thru on part of that threat and has killed her Daughter, after all if SA was wanting to hurt CD emotionally then he would be able to kill 2 birds with 1 stone, If he did rape or molest Hailey before killing her, then that was 1 bird for him, and now seeing what this is doing to CD well there is bird 2...
I as many of the others on here for days have been trying to figure out if when BD is answering a question from NG and she is looking all around and playing word gymnastics if this is something she has been doing because she has been involved or if it is because is is trying really hard not to say something the wrong way, as to not bring SA to her own doorstep again and he could just as easily take out DD or BD or both, heck if he is going to prison for 1 and he is really that evil he may as well get the other 2, that may have been the only reason that she was keeping any kind of text going on with him is because then she could keep him at bay as well as show LE what he was saying to her...
6. Losing her freedom and spending time in Prison....
Regardless of which from above you pick I can't help but think that she is Scared to Death.
Please feel free to add to the list if you can think of anything I have missed.