whew!
I take my son to his middle school band concert and had to catch up on like 30 pages! (wtg websleuthers!!!!!)
bumping PattyG's (((((((thank you so very much Patty!))))))) link to her site for the NG videos.
http://www.youtube.com/Sierra1947
I am not one to comment before reading every post I missed... and checking news and links for updates...
suffice it to say, from your excellent recaps of the show tonight I am sure I will stay in the same place I was with BD...
that:
1-she was a hands off parent and didn't know exactly WHAT was going on with her daughter
2-that BD's concerns were self centered and self serving
3-that she ignored many warning signs
4-that she is lying about the drug buy (hey affidavits speak ya know) and is most likely selfishly concerned that this media attention on her admittance to LE will impede HER getting her lpn license back in the future...
5-that she is still most likely in contact with SA and that she is obsessed with him
6-so much more....
(((((all of the above moo))))
people have to have a motivation for lying...
I think BD's motivations are
1-self preservation/public and professional persona
2-continued dedication to SA
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do I think she actually DID something to her daughter at this point? I do not... but I do see her having guilty knowledge and WILLFULLY turning her head the other way... maybe perhaps on multiple occasions.
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sure she wants to find her child now.. but also at the same time seems to struggle to save her own self... and that is concerning and a red flag....
what did she say yesterday? that the first priority is not to slander her?
no sorry BD the first priority is to find this child... Hailey
it is not to defend drug habits, hide them, lie about them...
it is not about one single thing but finding this kid.
sorry for the rant but she holds key evidence into the mind of the man who may have done this and SHE IS PROTECTING HIM? WHY?
MOO
((pass me a beer!))