I'm confused or tired perhaps.
I keep reading posts that continue to say (paraphrasing) "SB refused to put out her cigarette when asked."
Actually, she did not refuse. Not one time. At least not what I heard from the dashcam video and at least not per this transcript from this link:
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/sandra-bland-arrest-transcript_55b03a88e4b0a9b94853b1f1
This is the part of the transcript I am referring to:
Encinia: You mind putting out your cigarette, please? If you don't mind?
Bland: I'm in my car, why do I have to put out my cigarette?
Encinia: Well you can step on out now.
*SB is asking this LEO a question. Really. BE just couldn't muster enough professionalism and patience at this point to ANSWER her question and explain why he is asking her to? I don't understand this one bit. According to the exchange I heard and what is transcribed in this article she is asking, what I believe IMO, to be a valid question. Instead of simply answering her question he responds with what I consider aggression. IMO BE is the provoker among other things from start to finish.
I wanted to point out this exchange between SB and BE because after reading through this entire thread tonight I've seen it stated (paraphrased) over and over how SB was this and that when she "refused" to put out her cigarette. Nope, she asked the person in authority, in charge, the person with the badge that should know the answer "I'm in my car, WHY do I have to put out my cigarette?"
I'm speculating he met that question with aggression because he had no good answer (because if he did wouldn't it just be easier and not to mention more professional to simply answer her question and go from there?) She did not refuse to do what he asked. BE REFUSED to answer her question and/or explain why an officer would ask that. Perhaps, if he took the time to answer her question she would have said "Ok" and put it out. We don't know and will never know what would have happened if he chose to do that.
Additionally, with this exchange:
Encinia: OK, ma'am. (Pause.) You OK?
Bland: I'm waiting on you. This is your job. I'm waiting on you. When're you going to let me go?
Encinia: I don't know, you seem very really irritated.
Bland: I am. I really am. I feel like it's crap what I'm getting a ticket for. I was getting out of your way.
You were speeding up, tailing me, so I move over and you stop me. So yeah, I am a little irritated, but that doesnt stop you from giving me a ticket, so [inaudible] ticket.
Encinia: Are you done?
Bland: You asked me what was wrong, now I told you.
* I can understand SB's frustration when she explains why she is irritated by this stop. TO ME it seems in her mind she was doing the right thing by moving over a lane because she thought he needed to get by. I absolutely know one must signal when changing lanes. With that said, I also know when I see or hear an ambulance, fire truck or police coming from behind me my reaction is to get out of their way and quickly. I get all nervous about getting out of their way as I would never want to hold them up in an emergency situation. I know I've nervously and quickly changed lanes aka to me "getting out of their way" and not signaled the lane change. So, I can absolutely see the frustration when one truly thinks they're or they were doing the right thing but it turns out they were not. Again, instead of responding with "Are you done?" BE missed another opportunity to be a professional and explain to her what he observed while pulling her over, why he did, etc. Also, I know I would have gotten mouthy with BE when he asks what is wrong and I give my honest answer and he replies back with
"Are you done?" Well, if you didn't want to hear why I seem soooo irritated why did you ask?!?" I probably would have been a little more blunt that SB was to be frank. Because I know my rights. I know the laws. I would be beyond "irritated" that this LEO is not answering any of my questions and even worse than that he is meeting my questions with what I believe to be extreme, unnecessary aggression. He is asking me "what is wrong?" Yet, gets all nasty when I choose to actually answer him.
I have very close family members that are currently in LE and a few that are now retired. I respect LEO's just as I do every other human being. But from where I come from Respect is earned not given..badge or no badge.
JMO, MOO, IMHO and all of that.