You get your point across so well. Thank you so much for your reply! I agree with everything you said.
This is what i tried to get across last night, but maybe wasn't clear. Trauma survivors should not feel shame, guilt, fear, etc.... they should not fear to disclose what they experienced... they should be able to trust that they will not be re-victimized... but the bottom line is that they do not, just like you said. And this must be understood in cases such as this. I don't understand why this was disclosed. At all...