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I skimmed over the weekend but see no firm news :/
I do think their marriage was in a bad place. I've been through the same thing and it's like looking back at ours (but we made it through and came out stronger). To clarify, I'm NOT saying an affair was happening. I'm still not sure on that but it wouldn't surprise me. Marriage issues though, lack of photos together, her going from being a stay at home mom to a fit instructor, text messages of I love you from "10 months ago". It seems to me they were at a challenging place in their marriage and trying to make it work. Anyone who has been married a long time knows this will happen. We all have different phases of life with our spouse and there are times we grow and change and learning to accept that and change TOGETHER is challenging. I honestly don't think BB had anything to do with this. I think he did go on a trip, not everyone posts their daily life on FB, my husband rarely does. His FB would probably be empty if it wasn't for me tagging him. He will post here and there but I don't find it a huge clue. I think the friends he was with (if he was) were told by LE to be quiet and sit back. And honestly, I wouldn't want to be up front in the spotlight either if my friends spouse was murdered and have my life looked at. Look at how we are dissecting family, anyone who steps forward would be looked at completely too. But back on marriage, it could explain his lack of "tears". He may just be in shock. He may have loved her but not been "in love" with her. Doesn't mean he's not devastated that she is dead and her children do not have a mom, it's just more in shock. He never thought it would end like this and doesn't know how to process it. My husband wouldn't be all teary and crying either, he would in private, but not in public.
Now, RB, his interview was just weird. I don't think he did it either but the smirky smile and the wife posting stupid pictures on FB has me floored. Maybe they weren't close but good grief, have a little respect for your son and lay off FB for a few weeks with the goofy postings. Geez. I'd kick my families butts if they did stupid stuff like that :/ lol
My husband isn't into crime like I am but I did mention to him I thought it would be so hard to be thrust into the spotlight. Do you give an interview, do you cry, not cry, cry too much, say weird things. We all know spouse is the first one looked at. Interestingly enough, hubby said he would NOT be interviewed at all. Me, I would. Like many have said, there are no "rules" to this.
Broken window (I only skimmed this weekend so it may have been mentioned). Was it broken from the inside out or outside in? Could MB possibly have been trapped and tried to knock out the window from inside to escape? Honestly I still think the perp used a stun gun to stop her and killed her immediately. There wasn't enough time to have a fight. Or, they snuck up on her without a sound and did the blow to the head.
Phone and stuff being in truck. I would have left it there too while unloading and taken it inside once I was finished and had parked the truck. So I don't see anything strange with it still being in there.
The amount of planning and thought put into this is what scares me most. I did see someone say cat and mouse and this is what it reminds me of
I do think their marriage was in a bad place. I've been through the same thing and it's like looking back at ours (but we made it through and came out stronger). To clarify, I'm NOT saying an affair was happening. I'm still not sure on that but it wouldn't surprise me. Marriage issues though, lack of photos together, her going from being a stay at home mom to a fit instructor, text messages of I love you from "10 months ago". It seems to me they were at a challenging place in their marriage and trying to make it work. Anyone who has been married a long time knows this will happen. We all have different phases of life with our spouse and there are times we grow and change and learning to accept that and change TOGETHER is challenging. I honestly don't think BB had anything to do with this. I think he did go on a trip, not everyone posts their daily life on FB, my husband rarely does. His FB would probably be empty if it wasn't for me tagging him. He will post here and there but I don't find it a huge clue. I think the friends he was with (if he was) were told by LE to be quiet and sit back. And honestly, I wouldn't want to be up front in the spotlight either if my friends spouse was murdered and have my life looked at. Look at how we are dissecting family, anyone who steps forward would be looked at completely too. But back on marriage, it could explain his lack of "tears". He may just be in shock. He may have loved her but not been "in love" with her. Doesn't mean he's not devastated that she is dead and her children do not have a mom, it's just more in shock. He never thought it would end like this and doesn't know how to process it. My husband wouldn't be all teary and crying either, he would in private, but not in public.
Now, RB, his interview was just weird. I don't think he did it either but the smirky smile and the wife posting stupid pictures on FB has me floored. Maybe they weren't close but good grief, have a little respect for your son and lay off FB for a few weeks with the goofy postings. Geez. I'd kick my families butts if they did stupid stuff like that :/ lol
My husband isn't into crime like I am but I did mention to him I thought it would be so hard to be thrust into the spotlight. Do you give an interview, do you cry, not cry, cry too much, say weird things. We all know spouse is the first one looked at. Interestingly enough, hubby said he would NOT be interviewed at all. Me, I would. Like many have said, there are no "rules" to this.
Broken window (I only skimmed this weekend so it may have been mentioned). Was it broken from the inside out or outside in? Could MB possibly have been trapped and tried to knock out the window from inside to escape? Honestly I still think the perp used a stun gun to stop her and killed her immediately. There wasn't enough time to have a fight. Or, they snuck up on her without a sound and did the blow to the head.
Phone and stuff being in truck. I would have left it there too while unloading and taken it inside once I was finished and had parked the truck. So I don't see anything strange with it still being in there.
The amount of planning and thought put into this is what scares me most. I did see someone say cat and mouse and this is what it reminds me of