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Many counties now have these triage cars in service
That's really interesting. Thank you for posting.
Many counties now have these triage cars in service
With regards to the police incident on the 10th, a member of the safeguarding team at the school should have been informed through Operation Encompass. There may well have been other consequences too, such as social services involvement, and I would imagine many people know about the alcohol issues, IMO.
On another note, as a 40-something woman, I am very uncomfortable with them releasing such personal information. It's not going to help them find her three weeks later. It's not going to help her daughters. They could have said she was "vulnerable" from the very beginning and left it at that.
Does anyone know how long it would take to walk from the bench to the weir?From watching the BBC news just now the reporter Danny Savage added there was a decent tide at time of her probably entering the river which would've been enough to get past the weir.
I was abused by an ex-partner. I didn’t want to press charges (because we never do at first) and LE didn’t pursue it.Is this always the case nowadays? A few years (maybe 5 y) ago a family member had police called by neighbours when her narcissistic ex was being verbally and physically violent. Police left without an arrest as she didn’t push charges because she had also had a drink.
Also where does restorative justice fit into this?
Yep, very true but normally an arrest is made regardless so that the parties involved are split up for a while and the incident/facts are investigated. I interviewed a woman at the weekend who was arrested for assaulting her partner. It transpired that she was the victim of horrific abuse and things took a dramatic turn because of that.Its also true that victims of DV cover for their abusers.
Not saying this is the case here but in response to your facts. A non arrest does not mean theres no DA.
what photos?I think they probably wanted to help the family control the narrative that was put out. I mean the photos the daily Mail have managed to get hold of so quickly, this was probably known about for a while.
...and both were called to their house on the 10th January.They don't usually turn up together IMO unless an ambulance and Police are both called.
The police wouldn’t report themselves as being online.Regarding the post towards the end of the last thread where it mentions the press conference suggesting Nicola being online. I took this to mean that it might appear Nicola had been online, but it was the police using the phone as part of their enquiries not Nicola.
A woman I worked with was a victim of DV and every time the police arrived she said all was ok and they left as she refused to press charges. This is within the last 18 months.
If your account is public I think it’s quite easy if it’s private then I think they need a warrant? JMOWould the police really have full access to all her social media accounts?
Surely there is still the right to privacy?
Going missing shouldn't give the police the right to have full and unfettered access to everything.
Not necessarily , IMO .
Would the police really have full access to all her social media accounts?
Surely there is still the right to privacy?
Going missing shouldn't give the police the right to have full and unfettered access to everything.
Would her work know? I think it would be up to her to tell them. JMOOf course we all know this happened now with what's been released in last few hours.
Interesting though within two weeks she was closing a high pressure mortage deal with a client. Of course people can mask personal issues in the workplace but surely her work knew about the allegations?
Guess she'd have had a leave of absence if she'd actually been charged. I'd be interested what understanding of her issues her boss had.
A tabloid stuck a couple of photos of NB with drinks in her hand on their ' big splash' ( Look like family's social media posts from a celebration/selfies. )what photos?
The police wouldn’t report themselves as being online.
The police officer categorically said that this morning , the technology experts in the police have seen that NIcola may have been online.
Obviously, they weren’t looking at when she she wasn’t missing and would have been online - they’ve looked and seen that she might have been online since disappearing. They wouldn’t mention her being online prior to her disappearance as she was bound to have been online before vanishing.
Exactly this! My drunk ex pulled a knife out to myself and my meek brother in my kitchen and we had to beg the police to remove him from the house, my 14 yr old son at the time was terrified and told the police this, they eventually took my ex to his brothers for the night (after us pleading) who lived 10 mins walk away! No one else as far as I am aware was notifiedIs this always the case nowadays? A few years (maybe 5 y) ago a family member had police called by neighbours when her narcissistic ex was being verbally and physically violent. Police left without an arrest as she didn’t push charges because she had also had a drink.
Also where does restorative justice fit into this?
If there was any possibility of Nicola being online since she went missing then the reporting would be totally different.The police wouldn’t report themselves as being online.
The police officer categorically said that this morning , the technology experts in the police have seen that NIcola may have been online.
Obviously, they weren’t looking at when she she wasn’t missing and would have been online - they’ve looked and seen that she might have been online since disappearing. They wouldn’t mention her being online prior to her disappearance as she was bound to have been online before vanishing.