marynnu
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I don't think most people would seek help for intrusive thoughts if they thought they could lose their career (or something else important, such as custody of their children) from admitting their thoughts or compulsions.
Much like all of the severe child abuse cases we see. Some from people who, according to others, were "good parents" at earlier times.
A lot of people who clearly need help never seek it. I think it's very common to try to just cope alone with mental health issues. JMO.
I agree. I had some terrible thoughts after my son was born (he was a relentless crying baby) but no way would I have shared this. Though I knew enough to realise this isn't uncommon and doesn't mean you're going to act on those thoughts, so I was lucky in that sense.