I know the majority of you have your set opinions on why you think people are or are not searching and that is fine. Just putting some facts out there in case anyone wants to know...
The police ARE in fact doing physical searches. Susan's father Chuck Cox and anyone close to Susan has NEVER once asked anyone NOT to search. They have only asked that it is coordinated with police. They themselves are not organizing a large group search because they have no clue as to where to look. And they would rather use their energy, time, and resources in other ways until they know where to look. On the facebook group, they have discussions where people can post that they are ready to volunteer themselves and/or any resources they may have to help with the pshycial search once we get the go ahead from LE that there is a specific area to start searching. There are many people ready and willing to start searching once we get the green light and a specific area to searching.
Many of Susan's friends and family that live in this area have families. We are not just single people hanging out at our houses all day doing nothing. Our husbands have jobs that they have to go to every day to earn money to support their families. The wives either also have jobs or the majority of them are stay at home mothers who are taking care of their children. It is not that easy to go out in this weather and bring our little children with us to start searching snow banks and woods, especially when we may not even be looking in the right area. Once we have a place to start looking into, I am sure we will do whatever we can to get there and help with the search. Find sitters for our kids or whatever we have to do. But until then, we cannot even begin to think about going out into this cold weather with our young children and start looking through the snow.
As far as the missing fliers being translated into other languages...do you honestly think that is being done because we think Susan is in Asia? That is not it at all...
Here is the explanation on the facebook page from one of the administrators as to why that is being done:
"For those wondering why we're having Susan's "Missing" flier translated into other languages... We (English speakers) are not alone."
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There are many different languages spoken here and some don't speak english. This is intended to help spread Susan's name and picture in those communities.
I can see how all of you are frustrated and upset that Susan is still missing, that we don't have any more news, that justice has not been done yet...and you don't even know her. Try to imagine how the family and friends feel...the ones who know and love Susan. We are having a hard time with this, and if we feel like making fliers in other languages can help get her name and face out there to more people, than what is the problem? It doesn't mean we think she is in Asia, it means that we are trying to do the best we can in this hard position that we are in. We are trying to help find her. I only hope and pray that none of you have to go through something like this with someone you love in your life time.
The family and friends have never once asked people not to search, we ourselves are just not yet because of the above stated reasons. Once LE has a place to search, I can guarantee that there will be many, many people out there on day ONE looking for her. She could be anywhere in this state or the surrounding states.
And I know a lot of you think that searching, even if you are searching blindly, is better than nothing...but that is much easier said than done, especially for many of us who have small children who we cannot bring outside in this weather for hours and hours day after day.
I hope these thoughts can help even some of you better understand the very tough position we are in and try not to always jump to the most negative conclusions or worst assumptions regarding Susan's friends and family when it comes to these specific topics.