The media and many people in general love to latch onto this idea that there is just loads of women that go all out crying rape when there is none, but most of the time it's entirely the opposite: most assault victims never even report their rapes, let alone agree to help prosecute them.
When I volunteered at a crisis center it was so, so heartbreaking. You feel absolutely torn apart and heartbroken for the victim, and while you TOTALLY understand it and might even do the same thing yourself, when they say they don't want to go through the legal process it's depressing because you know that same person that hurt them is most likely going to hurt someone again.
And it's also frustrating because what is the solution? For the most part I think it involves raising our children better- in school and at home- but by the time people reach adult age imp there's just not a lot you can do. Besides maybe make them afraid of jail. I don't know. There are no easy answers :0(