I am just throwing this out there...but many times I have read FBI profiles of serial killers (assuming he turns out to be linked to the other missing women) that state they are looking for a very average guy who would just blend in to the community with a low paying job such as mechanic or dishwasher, etc. Many of the serial killers are just average guys who blend in to community. Rarely do they look like freaks. It is never the Charles Manson look, you know. They must seem non-threatening to the victim. I think winning over the victim is all part of the hunt, IMHO.