Replying to post #586
In no way am I implying any preference for NK by asking this; I think that regardless of if she was the helper or the mastermind in all of this, what she did is terrible & inexcusable--but I must ask what does it matter if she is or is not on any part of the autism spectrum?
Do you have a link for this?
A little girl who I love dearly is diagnosed as being very high functioning with ASD, & one thing we have all learned through her is that the saying, 'because you have met one child with autism, you can legitimately say nothing more than you have met one child with autism' (child/adult could both apply). I feel that this is probably a rumor, and I don't care what people say about NK, but I feel it is hurtful to those who truly live day to day with ASD & everyone who loves those people to suggest that because NK is (through her own admittance) a violent, careless, empathy-lacking being, she may have ASD at any level. If she did have an ASD diagnosis or any credible source (parents, teachers, doctors, psychologists, etc.) felt based on their own personal interactions with NK, IMO, that would have been thrown on the table immediately. I do not think NK, daddy, & lawyers would plea for bond citing bedding not being hypoallergenic, jail diet not being gluten free, or any of the other ridiculousness if they could legitimately use a disorder such as a legitimate ASD diagnosis as a reason to try to allow NK bond. IMO, that would have been brought up at the bond hearing if not before.
In no way am I saying you think these things or are guilty of reasoning ASD=violence, lack of empathy/emotion. Yes, in some individuals with ASD, you will see one, some, or all of those behaviors, but in others, you won't see any of them. So for that reason, I feel at least right now, that speculation is a bad rumor.