Well, I like that a lot better than strangers playing in the sand box - but as hard as it is, I think parents need to allow their other children to not grow up in the shadow of the loss of a sibling. The end of that video was very telling - "say I love you". As sad as parents are, and the kids are sad too - but I think the parents need to allow the kids to have breathing space where the grief from the loss of their sibling isn't always present.