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And this is the first I've heard that it was WM who was somehow unforgiving of RB? (It is hard to believe that RB made an offer to DM to live with his family in France!) These pieces do not feel like they fit with the things RB has angrily alluded to on the witness stand.
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Yes... seems there are always two or more sides to every story. Here is what RB said:
Adam Carter (WM Trial, RB Testimony):
"Burns says he knew Wayne Millard in the 80s, but "terminated his relationship" with Wayne Millard before he married Burns. "Their relationship was not good.""
It seems RB did not want DM having anything to do with his own (6) children:
"-Burns agrees that later on in life, he saw Dellen Millard less.
-He says Dellen Millard was hanging out with his children.
-"I tried to minimize it," Burns said.
-"He was forging with in his mind was a decent relationship. I had a different opinion." The judge again cautions him."
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-"I didn't want him, NOR HIS MOTHER showing up on this holiday to be with my kids," Burns says. [emphasis by me]
I would really be interested to know what RB saw in DM which obviously concerned him. Maybe I am reading too much into this, but it seems to me as if RB noticed peculiarities in DM which he felt obligated to share with his parents in an effort to help... (which seem to have been ignored and unappreciated, for whatever reason). This man was a doctor with 6 children of his own. Perhaps if DM's parents had listened and sought a professional opinion/counselling/whatever, something could have been different in the outcome of DM's life? jmo.
-Burns says initially he would see Millard pretty frequently when he was younger, but, "when I started to make personal observations, which I'm not allowed to-" and Pillay immediately jumps in.
[there is obviously something that Burns observed about DM which he is NOT allowed to talk about in this (or any) trial.. one can only imagine]
-Burns says he had "made suggestions to his mother and father." Now the judge jumps in. [once again, Burns is under warning, by the judge, to NOT mention this thing(s) about DM]
Considering RB terminated his relationship with WM before his sister had even married the man.. and then 'sees things' about the couple's son, and 'makes suggestions'.. could this be what WM could not forgive in RB?
ie imagine if your sister's husband, who couldn't stand you to begin with, and had ended the relationship with you before your sister married you, then made uncomfortable observations about your only child, and offered suggestions on how to deal with it (whatever it was).
Depending on what is being talked about, I can imagine some things could be considered unforgivable.. like say.. your sister's husband tells you that he's seeing traits in your prodigal only-child of severe mental disorder that could potentially have dire, life-and-death consequences if not dealt with?
Who knows what the 'transgression' may have been, ie secretly recording/videotaping DM while witnessing whatever it was that he was observing(?), who knows? There's definitely a story there, and because it is only RB's take on things, it is not allowed to be spoken of during the trial because it is unfair to the accused... however, this particular accused is already a twice-convicted killer who is already serving 2 life sentences, so perhaps in retrospect, RB's 'opinion' takes on more significance. No matter which way this trial goes, hopefully someone will elaborate on this at some future point in time once all of the trials are done. jmo.