Hi CJMAJORGIRL24, I cut out some details in your post to try to get to some of the key points, please don't read anything into that. I agree with many of your statements.
I know we are (unfortunately) not allowed to post rumors here, but the fact is, that this is a closed community with a lot of the locals afraid to say what is on their minds due to potential repercussions from the family members.
So if we can't even post it hidden behind our screen names, who will be willing to say anything publicly?
I think the editorial posted, which I linked again below, is a great step in the right direction. While not perfect, the reporter is trying to get the point across that the media has been closed off to the investigation and that the citizens have the right to the news, but the local culture will not allow them to report full out about what is going on.
http://www.centralwestvirginian.net/find-aliayah.html
That's just the way it is in that part of the US and since this is a forum that expands across the country, and into other parts of the world, I think it is valuable to call out that fact. The US is not just this great big melting pot that we like to think it is. There are so many differences depending on where you live. The small town where dear little Aliayah vanished from, is a part of the country that the society cares to just not acknowledge crimes such as this, or, as we say, "sweep it under the rug".
Censor is a fact of life...but the bottom line is:
NOBODY is speaking out for Ailayah. THAT IS A STORY!