Allabouttrial
Until you've walked a mile in someone else's shoes
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Let me preface by saying that I truly believe Brian killed Gabby.
For countless threads all I've seen is mainly speculation on their relationship. While it may have been abusive and it would indicate as such from the Moab police stop, it doesn't have to mean Brian controlled everything in Gabby's life.
Blaming Brian and inventing scenarios based on scant knowledge of their relationship I feel people are doing Gabby a disservice.
By going to the extreme in order not to victim blame, people are actually inferring that she was not a strong-willed woman with her own mind.
She was setting up a website, vlogging and exploring, things SHE was very focused and excited about (according to her dad).
I think I even read a suggestion that Brian made her read the books only he liked. Like seriously?
I do believe the relationship was toxic sometimes, but not to the extent where she had no free will.
Please don't let her life be in vain. She seemed to me to be a very free spirited, kind and outgoing girl who loved her life.
For countless threads all I've seen is mainly speculation on their relationship. While it may have been abusive and it would indicate as such from the Moab police stop, it doesn't have to mean Brian controlled everything in Gabby's life.
Blaming Brian and inventing scenarios based on scant knowledge of their relationship I feel people are doing Gabby a disservice.
By going to the extreme in order not to victim blame, people are actually inferring that she was not a strong-willed woman with her own mind.
She was setting up a website, vlogging and exploring, things SHE was very focused and excited about (according to her dad).
I think I even read a suggestion that Brian made her read the books only he liked. Like seriously?
I do believe the relationship was toxic sometimes, but not to the extent where she had no free will.
Please don't let her life be in vain. She seemed to me to be a very free spirited, kind and outgoing girl who loved her life.