Rainstorm Story:
The D/T had a grief "expert" on. She said that everyone experiences grief differently, and that the bond between a mother and child never breaks. She shared a story about how one of the women she was counseling called her hysterical because the child was in the rain (grave/tombstone) and the baby didn't like the rain/dark/storms. The counselor and the woman then went to the grave with umbrellas and sat there in the middle of the night during the storm. (paraphrased).