I honestly feel sorry for all the Croslin kids because they never had a chance in life being raised by Lisa and Hank. I dont really like to make fun of people like that, but thats just me. And as far as I can tell, all the Croslin kids lived and were able to grow up, unlike Ronald Cummings missing daughter, the reason we are all here.
Only quoting you to jump off of your post, Chablis.
Don't misunderstand, I'm not making fun of them. There is nothing funny about this situation. But let's not forget why we're all sitting here: there's a little girl missing and Bubba and Sissy are the ones who are holding back information and sending the cops on some crazy good chase....
"She's in this river, Joe took her, Joe may have thrown her in the river, it might have been three a.m, I saw a three, it came to me in a dream, I saw her in the van, I was high on Xanax, I don't do drugs, they came looking for a gun, there was no gun, I was there at 10pm, I wasn't there I just lied to get out of jail the second (or was it a third?) time". I think we get the point.
The fact of the matter is that Tommy was/is a grown man with young children and he made the choice to sell drugs and insert himself (whether purposefully or not) into a missing child case. He could have said "ya know, I want better for my kids so I'm gonna bust my butt to make sure they weren't raised like I was". Yet he's all taking Xanax while he's at work, falling asleep at kids' bus stops, stealing from his neighbor's. Way to set an example for those kids!
And Timmy. Maybe Timmy got out of Florida, but his wife is all over the place making contradicting statements and making herself look like a fool. AND, they are taking money from their income tax return, money that the government gave to them FOR FREE (because I guarantee you neither of them worked enough to receive a large refund--it's calling CLAIMING THEIR CHILDREN) and giving it to Misty and Tommy for their jail accounts, and giving it to ma and pa Croslin, no doubt probably funding their coke and crack and pain pill buying habits. Then they say "hey Misty wrote us this letter and I'll sell it because we need a car". Oh really? How about saving and/or making payments? I'm sure they have buy-here-pay-here places up there in MA. A car for 50$ a week, a 100$ a week, scrape by like other people in this country who were never taught how to swindle.
There comes a time in life where you have to acknowledge that your parents are toxic people that you should learn from, rather then follow in their foot steps. These aren't people who won a Pulitzer or tutored children as a hobby. These are people who swindle and lie and cheat and place blame elsewhere. It's always someone else's fault. Tommy and Timmy had the option and the chance to do better and make their life right. Just because they lived in FL in close vicinity to their parents and saw them often doesn't give them a reason to be like them. Take drugs is a conscious decision. Selling drugs is a conscious decision. Stealing from your neighbor is a conscious decision.
And at the very beginning, I fault awful for Hank Sr. I kept saying how sad it was, how he just needed a boost, I'd give him a job if we still lived in FL and my husband's business was booming...heck, I'd even hand them cash!
If they were arrested for buying 10, 20, 30 pain fills, I'd still feel bad for him. As someone who suffers DAILY with chronic pain (four diseases that have no cure, four back surgeries, one brain surgery), I totally feel for him. I would've felt even more sympathy for him. Chronic pain seriously sucks. But coke? Really? Cocaine? C'mon! Ya can't rationalize that. It's like saying "well I was depressed so I bought some PCP. I had a headache so I bought some K. My leg was hurting so I bought some acid".....what!?
How much money have they spent on cocaine while crying that they had no money?
If he and Lisa are addicts, then them going to jail is the best thing. It's free rehab. If they learn absolutely nothing, then it truly is tax dollars wasted.
Rant over, no disrespect towards anyone. I love you all. :blowkiss: