I KWYM,I have 2 kids..teenagers actually.. and tend to be quiet and shy...until it comes to them!

I'd fight fire with fire and and spit nails to protect them! But...that's just it.I don't think SS did enough,no matter how invincible she felt.I would have at least asked for a police escort.I felt she was too passive,just like the R's were (and still are).
I also would have stayed in Atlanta,or at least let the child stay there with family..it would seem to be a lot safer.I think the only reason they went back to Boulder was for appearances only.They sure didn't help police for 4 mo.Again,that's way too passive...I would have at least stayed quietly and in a different city,further away from Boulder.