"a specific tool ...designed for a specific audience."

[BeanE]

Let me make this crystal clear.

I have expressed no opinion whatever about Dede's behavior with the dog.

None.

I have not said it's okay. I have not said it's no big deal. I have not said or even so much as implied or insinuated what I think about her behavior with the dog.

BeanE

 

[pufnstuf]

^bump^

Please read the entire OP. This ties in. But if a new thread is needed just on this topic, I'm sure someone would be more than happy to start one.

This ties into cruelty and is an indication that the person who cared for a smaller living thing mistreated it, neglected it, and in her perverse way saw it as a tool to make her clean her house and set her back on her diet.

It's a view at the psyche of the person about whom the OP is structured.

 

[debs]

Please read the entire OP. This ties in. But if a new thread is needed just on this topic, I'm sure someone would be more than happy to start one.

This ties into cruelty and is an indication that the person who cared for a smaller living thing mistreated it, neglected it, and in her perverse way saw it as a tool to make her clean her house and set her back on her diet.

It's a view at the psyche of the person about whom the OP is structured.

I'd love to see a MSM link which says Dede was ever left in charge of Kyron's care. Thanks if there is one. Kaine seems to think she wasn't around much at all.

 

[Donjeta]

How do we know that the dog was a puppy?

 

[stmarysmead]

I have a cat, Skittles (I call her Tubby). When she was a kitten, I left her and her brother Snickers in my apartment. There was a bowl of food and water in every room of the house. I left water in the tub in case they managed to tip over the water. What I didn't plan on was that the wind would blow one of the bedroom doors closed, with Tubby on the inside. I was gone 2 days, and by the time I'd gotten back, she'd tried to claw her way out from under the door and caused some bad chafing on her front paws in the process.

I'm not a bad pet owner, and sometimes things happen. Dede sounds like she left the puppy in a room, not a crate, and tried to figure out what the puppy was doing to hurt itself, and figured out after a few days that he was sticking his nose under the rough door. She didn't force the puppy's nose under the door and take the chunk off the puppy's nose herself. She couldn't figure it out for a few days.

I don't agree with taking the food and water from the puppy, but then I also don't know how long she was gone during the day. Was it for an hour, a couple hours, what? I don't know.

All I know is this was blogged 2 years ago about something in her indeterminate past, and I can't see how it pertains to Kyron, since Kaine says she was rarely at his home, and can't remember more than a few times he's ever seen her.

She knew the first day. It continued for 5 or 6. The animal bloodied itself trying to get water or food. She was being paid to care for this dog.

 

[pufnstuf]

I'd love to see a MSM link which says Dede was ever left in charge of Kyron's care. Thanks if there is one. Kaine seems to think she wasn't around much at all.

Post 114 is the relevance. I've always known of this association... am amazed that others don't.

 

[wondering1]

How do we know that the dog was a puppy?

I'm guessing from the OP today that is no longer there. I think it referred to the dog as a puppy. Maybe because the dog is small and messes the carpet, turns its food over, etc. Typical puppy behavior. But, you're right, that does't mean it was a puppy. My dogs are huge, and I still call them the puppies, even though they couldn't be further from puppies if they tried

Personally, I don't think it matters if it's a puppy or a dog. jmoo.

 

[debs]

Post 114 is the relevance. I've always known of this association... am amazed that others don't.

I'm sure that post refers to animal cruelty. I'm asking for a MSM link that says Dede, animal abuser, was left in charge of Kyron Horman, missing child.

 

[stmarysmead]

Please read the entire OP. This ties in. But if a new thread is needed just on this topic, I'm sure someone would be more than happy to start one.

This ties into cruelty and is an indication that the person who cared for a smaller living thing mistreated it, neglected it, and in her perverse way saw it as a tool to make her clean her house and set her back on her diet.

It's a view at the psyche of the person about whom the OP is structured.

I would be delighted to start a thread on Dede's Sadistic Blog Post...but I think this may just fit the thread topic. Perhaps the "specific audience" is people who can expose these little cruelties to LE...provide the insight into the casual ability to see suffering say after day...and allow it to continue.

This dog was "loved" and she took money to care for it...but she would not be inconvenienced, would she? This is what you do with "inconvenient things" even if you love them. And this creature has the ability every day to come home , see the pain, the fear, the neglect...and DO IT AGAIN TOMORROW.

She is best friends with a woman that LE claims trying to hire a murderer for her inconvenient husband.

And then his child disappears.

I hope those who might know more vile, disgusting stories like this come forward...that specific audience who have observed that detachment that allows this kind of inhumane disconnect.

I can only think this Dede capable of anything...even things that would make seasoned LE cry.

 

[Donjeta]

IMO the relevance of the dog being a puppy is that if she agreed to dogsit a puppy she should have been able to predict that it acts like a puppy.

And it is usually recommended that puppies are fed more often than adult dogs.

 

[pufnstuf]

I'm sure that post refers to animal cruelty. I'm asking for a MSM link that says Dede, animal abuser, was left in charge of Kyron Horman, missing child.

Why would you ask me for a link to something I've never stated, opinion or otherwise?

 

[debs]

Why would you ask me for a link to something I've never stated, opinion or otherwise?

How is Dede's cruelty related to a specific tool, designed for a specific audience, then?

 

[JBean]

Just in case anyone was looking for this link here it is:
:innocent:

[ame="http://www.websleuths.com/forums/showthread.php?t=106886"]Etiquette & Information - Websleuths Crime Sleuthing Community[/ame]

This post is placed randomly in the thread, so don't be freakin out if it lands near yours.

 

[Donjeta]

I've no idea if Dede ever babysat Terri and Kaine's children but IMO it is not necessary information. She could have babysat them for months at a time and not have had anything to do with Kyron going missing, or she could have had nothing to do with the kids and yet have played some role in Kyron's case.

 

[nonfictionrocks]

How is Dede's cruelty related to a specific tool, designed for a specific audience, then?

Wasn't this flyer initially delivered to specific area homes? I am under the impression that LE released the flyer to MSM after someone who received one went public. I do not recall the flyer asking home owners to get on their computers and dig up anything they can find online about DeDe but I will go take a look at it again in case I am mistaken. JMO

 

[stmarysmead]

I'm sure that post refers to animal cruelty. I'm asking for a MSM link that says Dede, animal abuser, was left in charge of Kyron Horman, missing child.

Does it matter?

This Sadist was missing during the hours that her BESTEST friend, the one who LE says tried to arrange a hit on her husband...ALSO cannot account for her hours.

This woman who could leave every morning knowing the dog she was being paid to watch would have another day in pain, thirst, hunger and bloody misery... this CREATURE spent days in the same house with that BESTEST Friend, getting her a Bat Phone..and filling the time when BESTEST FRIEND wasn't sexting someone she barely knew.

Just the girls next door, aren't they?



This should be sent to PEOPLE...so they can fillin their story...so they can educate their readers to the caliber of these two friends.

 

[JBean]

Just to see if I have this part straight, there are allegations of dog abuse by DD but we cannot link to where that comes from? and this is related to the topic how?
These are real questions from me because I have no idea what that is all about exactly.
gracias in advance.

 

[debs]

I've no idea if Dede ever babysat Terri and Kaine's children but IMO it is not necessary information. She could have babysat them for months at a time and not have had anything to do with Kyron going missing, or she could have had nothing to do with the kids and yet have played some role in Kyron's case.

Absolutely. How is her cruelty to a dog over 2 years ago a specific tool designed for a specific audience, then? I am not trying to be facetious. I really want to know.

 

[Donjeta]

It may be off topic but it seems to generate a lot of interest.

She may have had a specific audience in mind when she wrote about it :angel:

 

[cypress]

BeanE and I posted at the same time, and I said:

Originally Posted by cypress View Post
LOL, I posted that exact same question! Great minds...or something. ;o)

I'd really like to read the post where she laughing about this situation.

How in the world does that translate into the following BBM?

Okay, is she saying. "I was devastated to come home and find the dog I was being paid to care for had gone all day with no food or water. He's going to be here for 5 or 6 days so I have to find another plan."

Where does she mention how viewing the suffering of an animal that went on for days..the dog bleeding in trying to get to food or water...where does she show empathy or distress.

Anything can be excused? You would want Dede to care for YOUR dog, your baby, your invalid Mother?

Amazing!

Nowhere in my post did I make a judgment about Dede's actions with the puppy. I was simply asking for more information in order to make a judgment about what had happened. In several other posts you asserted that she was laughing, joking, and then (BBM) --

[...]and the Dog Sitter who just split her sides laughing over a thirsty, hungry dog having to relieve himself in a small trapped area.

-- and I was simply looking for Dede's posts wherein she laughed, joked, or conveyed that she was splitting her sides laughing about this event. That is all. In none of my posts did I condemn or condone her actions. Please, don't misconstrue or misrepresent what I said. Thank you.