I am going to make an observance - which may or may not be accurate - but its just from what I have read:
• It appears that EP is unable to "stick" to any one thing for a period of time. I have tried to note the timeline of basic life events that i can find in her adult life.
c. 1994 - 1998? after school - study? (is this the accounting there is report of studying?)
c. 1999 - 2002 air traffic controller studied for 14 months to work only for 22 months total.
c. 2002 - 2004 unaccounted for
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c. 2004 - at least 2005 ? working as "admin officer" with RSPCA when meets SP
c. 2007 marry and presumably live in Korumburra SP is working but maybe not EP - she says when they got married "SP gave notice at his job" nothing about her giving notice.
2007 - tour Australia.
2007 arrive in WA buy home outright using some of inheritance from Erin's grandmother
c. 2007 - 2009 - living and SP working in Perth. EP applied to university (does not say if she attended). Has son
2009 leaves SP and son in FNQ and flies "home" to Perth leaving them to drive home. Separation after - EP in a house, SP in a caravan park for 3 months.
2011 - ? EP (at least) and it appears SP and son are in Pemberton (she calls it "the middle of nowhere) - several hours SE from Perth in "Karri timber country" where she opens a second hand bookshop - she did that "for quite a while"
2013 - return to Victoria and stayed with don and gail
2014 Has daughter
2015 formal separation - note at least 2 other temporary separations between 2009 and 2015 and at least 2 reconciliations after 2015
2015 - 2020? EP lives in at least 2 houses in Korumburra at least one of which she owned and lets SP have.
2019 EP's mother dies - while she is still receiving instalments from her grandmother's estate (until 2023) she receives enough to buy and build her new house at leongatha
(my comment as an Architect - bland, boring and basically an ill constructed project home with little whimsy, delight or individualism - what a waste - but of course she thought she could design it soooooo much better).
2020? moves to new house
2022 major ructions with SP evolve.
2023 applies to study nursing then defers.
now it appears to me that her life is not very stable. She is constantly moving, when she was single it appears she moved from possibly one profession to another and sometimes did not even stay at a job as long as she studied for it. She appears to have attempted studying at least two times - is this an excuse for not working?
I am just going to say that to me this appears as someone who cannot maintain relationships, has an everchanging point of view of what they want to be, and needs something - anything to happen frequently in order to bolster themselves, thus jumping from one thing to another.
and then i look at this:
- A persistent pattern of unstable relationships, self-image, and emotions (ie, emotional dysregulation) and pronounced impulsivity (of which epitomises what has been happening since at least 1999)
This persistent pattern is shown by ≥ 5 of the following and i look at these and I (me i stress my opinion) think they are or have been present just by the timeline and by the testimony self reported or otherwise - well at least the underlined ones are completely obvious to me:
- Desperate efforts to avoid abandonment (actual or imagined)
- Unstable, intense relationships that alternate between idealizing and devaluing the other person (she loves SP but he is a deadbeat...D and G are wonderful but lost causes)
- An unstable self-image or sense of self (what does she want to do or be?)
- Impulsivity in ≥ 2 areas that could harm themselves (eg, unsafe sex, binge eating, reckless driving) (self reported and the 2004 episode)
- Repeated suicidal behavior and/or gestures or threats or self-mutilation
- Rapid changes in mood, lasting usually only a few hours and rarely more than a few days (says the arguments only last a few days then its back to normal)
- Persistent feelings of emptiness
- Inappropriately intense anger or problems controlling anger (using highly expletive and finality type language during her text talk with fb friends - OTT)
- Temporary paranoid thoughts or severe dissociative symptoms triggered by stress
and then also in my opinion this can apply
A persistent pattern of excessive emotionality and attention seeking
featuring at least 5 of exhibited by early adulthood
- Discomfort when they are not the center of attention
- Interaction with others that is inappropriately sexually seductive or provocative
- Rapidly shifting and shallow expression of emotions
- Consistent use of physical appearance to call attention to themselves
- Speech that is extremely impressionistic and vague
- Self-dramatization, theatricality, and exaggerated expression of emotion
- Suggestibility (easily influenced by others or situations)
- Interpretation of relationships as more intimate than they are
anyway - all highly speculative and my own musings about the possibilities of the "motives" of this alleged crime.