I think it will have a very long-term effect on Jake and Ellie. Of course we don't know, and hopefully never will, find out what happened to CS, but children are resilient. IF he didn't mistreat her physically, hopefully she'll bounce back to her normal self sooner (whatever that means) rather than later, but I live in hope. I'm a glass half full sort of gal. I personally have no memories going back to that age and only have a few from when I was 6. I've asked some of my friends what age their earliest childhood memories are and they were nearly all the same as me. Having said that, we know that several of our members here have been through shocking ordeals, but I don't get the impression that anything gross happened to this dear little girl.
Yes. The degree of trauma that CS experienced will obviously impact her memory of the event later in life and her integration/healing of it.
I remember few things from early childhood (0-5) that aren't traumatic experiences on some level.
My very first memory is when I was about 18 months old and my Mum took me to get one of my first vaccinations.
The local Town Hall had been set up with a patient bed/folding table that you'd see in your GP's room.
I recall it was very empty except for that one table and two nurses stood by it. I remember my mother handing me to one of the nurses and then I was handed back after getting my shot.
WOW.
I felt like I'd just been betrayed by my Mum, like she'd given me to the strange nurses to be made to feel sick, made to feel horrible, like nothing I'd ever known in my little life up until that point.
Clearly, I'd had a rare reaction to the vaccine, one that was never looked into or followed up. (I've since suffered adverse reactions to two other vaccines - I am NOT anti-vax though)
Funnily enough, I didn't speak of that very early memory until I was about 30.
When I eventually mentioned it to my Mum (a few years ago) she was astonished, as not only had she never realised how I'd been affected that day way back in 1984-85, but she herself had a similar first memory!
So yes, if CS at some point felt like something very wrong had happened she may carry great trauma but if it wasn't actually too rough transitioning to being in TKs care, perhaps she will be relatively unscathed, maybe forgetting some, most or all of her experience - although the body would store at least some degree of trauma simply as a result of the seperation from her parents scent etc