K&B and others belong to a sub-culture, they value different things.
Then young people need to be more educated about this stuff. If
Vice of all places said the picture was too disturbing to publish, it was probably pretty disturbing. Maybe it was a joke, maybe it wasn't. But one thing I do know from experience is if people joke about suicide a lot, that's probably a topic they think about a lot.
But what are they supposed to do about it? Distance themselves is about the only thing you can do. It's up to family to deal with it, and we have no idea what was done. That "nobody intervened" is an assumption, and I suspect an incorrect one. His own mother sent him away because she was afraid of him.
Um...tell someone? Sending your kid away is the exact opposite of intervening in the problem. And I'm not blaming it on her because it's really hard to get resources for these things a lot of the time. I'm not blaming his friends either for assuming it was a joke. I'm just saying we all need to be more aware and to do better as a society. We don't know if any other interventions were done, but as I detailed below, there's evidence to indicate there wasn't much done.
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@NJSleuth91 did I miss something? Bryer had a "long history of suicide threats"? Can you clarify for me or define "long'?
Apparently since at least age 12 or 13 he was telling his classmates in graphic detail how he was going to kill them, and shoot himself in the face in front of them.
I’ve been curious if Bryer had Adhd and ODD. We know he was in an alternative school. We really don’t know much about him either. His father wasn’t even in his life for 8 years. I’d prefer to hear from his mother or grandmother but completely understand why they aren’t talking.
Well I'm going to say severe depression was a major part of it. ADHD is possible because maybe that's where he got the Ritalin from, and it would explain a lot. We may never know unless something comes out in the report.
Personally, I kind of have an issue with the existence of ODD. I know a few people who were diagnosed with it as kids, and they all came from unstable and dysfunctional homes and were just reacting to the lack of a stable home environment.
I bet Bryer did have intervention and services at some point in his life. Sometimes it’s just not enough.
"At some point in his life" definitely wouldn't have been enough. So far there's no evidence of any psychiatric treatment or diagnosis. His family probably would have said something about it. Usually families do, because they won't be vilified as much by the media. Like with Elliott Rodger, his dad talked openly about his diagnoses and therapy and how even that wasn't enough. Instead what we heard was Bryer's grandma, great-uncle, mom, and dad all saying either they had no idea he had any issues and he was quiet and polite, or in the case of his dad, they knew he was troubled but didn't think it was anything major. They also either had no idea about some of the other things he was involved in (ie. Nazis), or thought it wasn't a big deal. Obviously we don't know for sure if intervention would have been effective in preventing him from escalating to violence, but I think there's an entire highway's worth of signs indicating that a lot of this went overlooked.