NJSleuth91
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I could go either way with the other "close friends". I do think B&K were each other's closest friends at this point .... I'm not surprised they had other friends they hung out with. Of course, they did. But that's not the same as being close friends with someone.
Especially for guys, I think a lot of times they can be close friends with someone but not really interact with them on a deeper level. Like it's more that they just share hobbies and interests and spend a lot of time together. That doesn't mean that they don't care about each other -- and I'm sure those friends are grieving too -- but it's more that guys are less likely to open up in general, and especially if they're as shy and emotionally stunted as these two seemed to be. But clearly, there were a lot of things that Kam and Bryer only talked about with each other. I think their friendship was on a different level from all their other friendships...I mean, clearly it was. (BTW I find it interesting that Bryer's dad speculated on it being a "Thelma and Louise" situation...you could read a lot into that statement....)
I have always agreed that Kam had to be of like minds with Bryer, otherwise, he could have not tolerated Bryer's thoughts and behavior all of these years. He would have likely drifted from him, as I've said numerous times in my posts. Whether Kam was bullied ... it is entirely possible (Bryer's bullying is so easy for me to believe tho). Sigh .... I can speculate about Kam until the cows come home, but at this point it is just a guessing game.
I just can't imagine that he would have related to Bryer that much if they hadn't gone through some similar experiences. Also I guess I feel kind of more confident about my intuitions now since so many things I theorized on were confirmed in this interview (this case has made me realize I have a lot of abilities I didn't know I had....)
Yes, I do agree they wanted to escape .... I think suicide was an acceptable plan B for them. They were never going to prison. All MOO
I'm not even sure that they wanted to escape, or thought they could. It's possible it took them that long to decide to kill themselves, or were just seeing how long they could last because why not. Bryer looks sort of peaceful in the store footage, and people who have decided to kill themselves often feel content leading up to it. Some of us have speculated that he had already decided to die and was kind of just staying around to look after Kam until Kam was able to go through with it. Kam looks really upset to me in the store footage so I don't think he was ready to die yet.
Good question on the warning signs for Kam .... I hope we do find out eventually. I would think there has to be something.
I'd bet real actual money that something comes out.
Do we have any thoughts of who took that picture of Bryer with the gun in his mouth? Wouldn't that be a difficult selfie? JMO
It looks like a screenshot from a webcam livestream.