Ok fellow sleuthers, I have just 'joined' this thread, and after reading much of the thread.. I have the following thoughts/questions:
i)how do we know the couple (SB and JB) are estranged? It seems odd that if estranged, and if in a messy separation, the two would be still living together, and also odd that the family would include the estranged husband in the family presser? Apparently the estrangement was noted in an MSM article, but do we know it is accurate? It just seems odd that LE haven't mentioned it, nor the family? (or have they and I just missed that?)
ii)in regard to SB's family members not listing JB as a 'friend' on their FB, I think this may have something to do with the various persons' privacy settings. Many of the family members have their friends blocked so that only other friends can see them, and not the general public (like us for example). I am wondering if this could be why he shows up only on the sister-in-law's 'friends list', since hers are not hidden?
iii)I am thinking that if SB's family had any inklings or reasons to suspect that their missing family member's husband had anything to do with her disappearance, he would not have been invited to attend the presser?
iv)in regard to the supposed marriage in May of SB to JB, to me it sounds like JB was kind of the puppet-guy, and SB called the shots. On SB's FB post dated May 1st, she announced that she is 'just going to go ahead and get married on Sunday' and included JB's FB link in that post. Presumably the date for said marriage would be May 4th, 2014 as she later indicated May 4th, and also that there would be no wedding to invite people to attend; JB then replied to SB's marriage statement (in the wee hours of May 2nd) that 'it was the first he'd heard about it', to which SB responded that 'she knew she had forgotten to tell *someone*'. Much later in the day on May 2nd (and May 2nd is only two days prior to the apparent planned marriage), in response to same post, JB said 'SB was stuck with him now, no refunds!' To me, that sounds like it was SB who was in rather a hurry to have this marriage happen, but that JB was perfectly willing to accommodate.
To me, and of course, appearances mean nothing, he seems like a rather shy guy; in photos his hands seem to be often in his pockets in photos, he kind of often seems to hide his smile, kind of nerdy looking.. perhaps rather a little on the boring side(?), he worked for the government apparently. I'll bet he was head over heels for SB. To have him kind of change appearance over the next few months after SB perhaps started making her desired changes in him after marriage, doesn't surprise me at all. In the presser when someone noted his head was down, that could just be his shyness coming through again. Also, I dont' think it is weird that he didn't speak, because none of the other family members spoke either. Just the one sister was the family spokesperson.
v)in one post, someone mentioned that JB was also into acting, but I couldnt' find a reference to that anywhere, does anyone have a link?