General question that applied to so many previous messages I thought it'd be better to post separately. I've seen it repeated that Dylan didn't want to go to his dad's, and the longer this goes on the more adament it seems some of the posts are getting about him not wanting to go. I wish we knew more about the "court ordered visititation" but I find myself wondering if this is a bit of sensationalist wording in MSM? Was it court ordered in that the recent custody agreement indicated that they'd alternate Thanksgiving holidays starting with Dylan being at dads this year? Was it a last minute thing, or just part of the custody agreement?
I've also read (here) several times that he was forced to go. Did he ever indicate to a judge he didn't want to go? Other than the "scowling emoticon" in the text to his mom I haven't seen much to indicate he didn't want to go IMO. It seems he was at least looking forward to seeing his old friends. Even if he's not "outdoorsy" it's not like being at his dad's automatically meant a week of backpacking or something. I can see a kid that age preferring to stay at his regular home for any number of reasons, but if there was somewhere that it was said he adamently didn't want to go or was forced to go, I must have missed it. If I did miss something can someone please help me find it? It's been hard to keep up!
I so hope he's found soon.
I've also read (here) several times that he was forced to go. Did he ever indicate to a judge he didn't want to go? Other than the "scowling emoticon" in the text to his mom I haven't seen much to indicate he didn't want to go IMO. It seems he was at least looking forward to seeing his old friends. Even if he's not "outdoorsy" it's not like being at his dad's automatically meant a week of backpacking or something. I can see a kid that age preferring to stay at his regular home for any number of reasons, but if there was somewhere that it was said he adamently didn't want to go or was forced to go, I must have missed it. If I did miss something can someone please help me find it? It's been hard to keep up!
I so hope he's found soon.