CO- Dylan Redwine, 13, Vallecito, 19 November 2012 - #12

[kkdj]

Yes, there is a Mark Jr. which maybe is the oldest brother (guessing). I see him on Dylan's facebook but haven't heard any press about him.

If I recall correctly, MR's brother and oldest son went out to be with MR.

 

[LotusPawprint]

Yes, there is a Mark Jr. which maybe is the oldest brother (guessing). I see him on Dylan's facebook but haven't heard any press about him.

So there are 4 boys, at least, (Dylan, Cory, Nick, Mark Jr)? We know about the dynamic of Dylan and Cory's relationship w/MR and just read that Nick has been estranged from his father after a fragmented childhood. Interesting.

 

[kkdj]

So there are 4 boys, at least, (Dylan, Cory, Nick, Mark Jr)? We know about the dynamic of Dylan and Cory's relationship w/MR and just read that Nick has been estranged from his father after a fragmented childhood. Interesting.

Right. So I keep asking myself why did he fight for custody of Dylan? Sometimes as men become older they become better parents. But that's not what I'm thinking is the case here. This keeps looking like keeping at his ex wife. Of course we don't know that, but she commented that may be the motive and that MR didn't treat Dylan very well.
Jmo

 

[Kamille]

If I recall correctly, MR's brother and oldest son went out to be with MR.

I believe Mark Jr is the younger of the two boys. Nick is the one who came out in the beginning.

MOO

 

[asyousay]

Right. So I keep asking myself why did he fight for custody of Dylan? Sometimes as men become older they become better parents. But that's not what I'm thinking is the case here. This keeps looking like keeping at his ex wife. Of course we don't know that, but she commented that may be the motive and that MR didn't treat Dylan very well.
Jmo

That seems like a lot of work just to get back at his ex wife. Maybe he just loves his son and wanted him in his life?!.

Why would you want your son around if you did not care?

 

[mmmagique]

There is no doubt whatsoever in my mind that Dylan spent the night with Mark.

Respectfully snipped by me.

Then you are not looking at all possibilities. It's very possible that he did not. It's also very possible that he did.

We discuss all (reasonable) possibilities ad nauseum. Sometimes it's best to skip over posts that appear to go in circles. But we absolutely cannot rule dad out at this time.

 

[white rabbit]

http://www.thedenverchannel.com/new...arch-under-way-for-dylan-redwine-near-durango

Authorities in southwestern Colorado are searching a common route between Durango and Vallecito on Saturday for clues in the disappearance of a 13-year-old boy.

About 500 volunteers showed up to help search on Saturday.

 

[Wolf Dreamer]

For people who want non scanner updates - KOAT-TV's @angelabrauer is there tweeting - this is a pic she put out about 50 minutes ago

https://twitter.com/AngelaBrauer/status/277441546570313729/photo/1

 

[kkdj]

That seems like a lot of work just to get back at his ex wife. Maybe he just loves his son and wanted him in his life?!.

Why would you want your son around if you did not care?

Oh I hear ya! But why would mom point the suspicious finger at her ex and say the things she did if she did not believe what she was saying? I mean her child is missing! The goal is to find her child and she is suggesting where to look! Sure got my attention!
Jmo

 

[mmmagique]

Good morning everyone!:seeya:

I have been thinking again this morning. Dont laugh well go ahead and laugh!lol

So many seem to be sure that Mr. Redwine is the one that is in the middle of Dylan's disappearance but I still have questions that make no logical sense to me.

If he was trying to stage an 'abduction or disappearance' of Dylan then why didnt he leave some of Dylan's clothing/items scattered about? Like maybe his outer shorts dropped on the floor or t-shirt.

Why would he leave nothing behind if he was planning this 'staged abduction' or 'disappearnce' when he would have had the backpack available where it would make it look more convincing that Dylan had been there?

This is not a stupid man nor do I think he is a guilty one either. JMO

Maybe it wasn't planned. (if he did anything at all) And maybe after either accidentally or on purpose fatally hurting someone, you're just not thinking as clearly as those of us who are sitting in front of our computers, speculating.

 

[kkdj]

For people who want non scanner updates - KOAT-TV's @angelabrauer is there tweeting - this is a pic she put out about 50 minutes ago

https://twitter.com/AngelaBrauer/status/277441546570313729/photo/1

Impressive!

 

[Psychic Sleuth]

Wow 500 searchers! That's fantastic!!

 

[Tennlyn]

http://www.thedenverchannel.com/new...arch-under-way-for-dylan-redwine-near-durango

Authorities in southwestern Colorado are searching a common route between Durango and Vallecito on Saturday for clues in the disappearance of a 13-year-old boy.

About 500 volunteers showed up to help search on Saturday.

BBM

That's fantastic! Please let all the searchers stay safe, and please let Dylan come home!
:great: lease: :great: lease: :great:

 

[LotusPawprint]

This is a heartfelt and interesting article.
I find it interesting also that the article says that nick and MR haven't had much of a relationship. Nick sounds like a good guy.
Imo

Agreed, he has two little boys of his own- this has to be brutal for him in so many ways. I hope he has good support and I'll add him to my prayers.
Dylan's middle name is Nicholas.. it does seem like his big brothers are really crazy about him.

He appears to be in Arizona as well. What I found interesting in the picture and article with Nick is that the caption reads that Elaine and the boys were visiting him 4 years ago, after the divorce. So it appears that she makes the effort to keep all the boys in contact?

MOO

I agree that is interesting. Also to clarify for those who might not know, Nick is Mark's son from a previous marriage (not Elaine's son). So I think it's especially telling that Elaine (w/ her boys Cory and Dylan) is in contact with Nick (her ex husband's son from another marriage). If I'm understanding the specifics correctly, that is a very interesting dynamic.

 

[asyousay]

Oh I hear ya! But why would mom point the suspicious finger at her ex and say the things she did if she did not believe what she was saying? I mean her child is missing! The goal is to find her child and she is suggesting where to look! Sure got my attention!
Jmo

Maybe in the heat of the moment she lashed out. They clearly have a very bad history and he was the last one to see him alive. When the shock wears off , maybe she changed her mind as are they both not on the searching today ?.


It does seem strange that they do not consider him a suspect when you would assume him seeing Dylan last points the finger in his direction until proven otherwise!!

 

[JaimeSommers]

Hmmmm ... Something just popped into my head that I haven't seen posted here before (but apologies in advance if it has and I missed it somewhere in the 147 different threads ).

Many threads ago I speculated that there could have been an argument in the car on the drive home from the airport -- possibly Dylan (being a normal teenager) was expressing his displeasure at being there by ignoring his father by playing on his phone (or simply ignoring his father in general because he didn't want to be there) -- and an argument ensued and the father snapped.

What if -- and I'm purely speculating here -- what if there was an argument, but instead of becoming physically violent, the father snapped, stopped the car, and told Dylan to get out, thinking he would "scare" him into an attitude adjustment. ("You don't want to be here? Then get out and go back to your mother!")

When he went back to get him, he was gone. And now he doesn't want to admit what he did.

Again, purely speculating and throwing out what might be a new idea.

ETA: Lest anyone misunderstand the intent of my words, telling a teenager to get out of the car at night in the winter is a violent act, imo, but different than direct physical violent contact. That's all I meant.

 

[MrsPC]

I'm wondering if maybe they need to search the area nearer where MR & ER used to live at 61 Windmill Dr Durango....perhaps that's an area MR is more familiar with.

 

[Dee10]

I don't think even Ayla's birth father has been called a suspect or Debra Bradley, however (I believe) everyone knows they are.

I fully believe if MR is not an outright suspect, he is a POI. FBI know parents kill their children all the time and until they can rule them out...

 

[LotusPawprint]

This community is AMAZING. Having monitored the Find Dylan fb page and listening to the scanner, there is so much unity and support for Dylan. Talk about mobilizing the troops.
It's crazy that whoever is responsible for Dylan's disappearance, likely one person, can cause so much grief.... but look at the unbelievable response by so many!

I've been discouraged recently but these searchers give me hope and I'm so grateful for everyone who is helping to find Dylan.

 

[jjenny]

That theory has been proposed before. I don't find it believable. If he kicked Dylan out of the car, I am pretty sure first thing Dylan would do is contact his mother. And why then he would go to Dylan's friend in Vallecito looking for Dylan there?