CO- Dylan Redwine, 13, Vallecito, 19 November 2012 - #21

[Crosby87]

You are a mod so i am not sure if i am allowed to quote you. Please delete this if its not allowed.

Yes, i sometimes forget nothing is set in stone in this case and we basically know very little.


I just personally can not get past the lack of the mobile phone not being in use after 8 pm.

It always came back to that for me.

How many 13 year old boys would in today's day and age sit in a car for 30/40 mins and at no point get out there phone and start texting friends ?

( not sure on the exact time range from Walmart to MR's house but its not near)

And no one but Mark saw or spoke with Dylan after he stopped using his phone at 8 pm Sunday night.

I’m pretty sure Mark knew Dylan planned to meet RN at 6:30 am the following morning and ER said it was a 35 minute drive to Bayfield, so if Mark intended to drive Dylan there why wasn’t he trying to get Dylan up at 5:30 instead of 7:30?

Mark said he was trying to get his son up at 7:30 am and that time doesn’t jive with the time Dylan said he would meet his friend if his father intended to drive him there.

“”Mark Redwine tells the Herald that he does not think Dylan ran away because he had nothing to run away from.””

http://www.durangoherald.com/article/20121215/NEWS01/121219687/-1/news01&source=RSS

 

[Seajay]

I've been doing a lot of reading here lately and not much posting. I am so saddened to see that the general consensus is that Dylan is dead and all this talk about a body and recovering it.

I just do not want to believe that adorable boy is dead and that his light will not shine on the world again. This is why I'm trying really hard to sit on the fence and to give MR every break imaginable. Because if I go with what everyone else thinks of MR, then I also have to go with Dylan being dead. Does that make sense?? If MR is involved and Dylan has not surfaced in all this time, it can only mean ONE thing and one thing only. Dylan is dead.

So I'd like to believe that other things happened, something that Dylan would be alive through.

I keep holding out hope that things are not as they seem, that those twists and turns that Salem is talking about applies to Dylan's case. And for Elaine, for a mother, she has to have hope. All this talk of death is not hope. It's the end of the story, except for arrest and prosecution. No mother would want to have that when they can have their child home, alive and thriving.

I have to lean on the side of hope because right now, that's all we have. Giving up hope is giving up the belief that Dylan is alive out there somewhere and just needs to be found and brought home. IMO

 

[Seajay]

I’m pretty sure Mark knew Dylan planned to meet RN at 6:30 am the following morning and ER said it was a 35 minute drive to Bayfield, so if Mark intended to drive Dylan there why wasn’t he trying to get Dylan up at 5:30 instead of 7:30?

Mark said he was trying to get his son up at 7:30 am and that time doesn’t jive with the time Dylan said he would meet his friend if his father intended to drive him there.

RSBMM: MR said he left at 7:30 am and tried again. He did not state what time he originally tried to roust Dylan. That may have been an hour or two before. What I see happening is he gets up and tries to wake Dylan up. Dylan ain't havin it. Mark showers and gets ready for his day, waiting for Dylan to get up. Once he's ready to leave at 7:30 he tries to wake Dylan up again to tell him he's leaving and that he'll have to wait til he comes back. From all the links, that's the way I took it. I never took it that he woke him up at 7:29 am, then tried to wake him up at 7:30 am and then left.

 

[asyousay]

Seajay I did not mean to upset you . I am just looking at the time that has passed and its never good news when it's been this long .

I hope and pray that somebody has Dylan but i think the odds are agains that but I get why people are clinging to that .

 

[ICUDOUCME]

I'm going to just throw all logic out the window and say this, he could of been picked up by who knows who, he could of made friends with someone and left with them, he could of just went into the woods(yeah I know they say that didn't happen),his father could be hiding him, he could of fallen in the lake, he could of been snatched by some sicko. His father could of done something to him, he might have family hiding him somewhere. He could of been in accident with some of his little buddies, some other kid did something. These are all possiable....do you think that LE hasn't ruled this all out by now? Which ones would you think LE wouldn't have ruled out? I just think there is so much here and we just don't know....it saddens me that the family of Dylan just doesn't have any answers to where there little man is by now.

 

[Wild@Heart]

I'm going to just throw all logic out the window and say this, he could of been picked up by who knows who, he could of made friends with someone and left with them, he could of just went into the woods(yeah I know they say that didn't happen),his father could be hiding him, he could of fallen in the lake, he could of been snatched by some sicko. His father could of done something to him, he might have family hiding him somewhere. He could of been in accident with some of his little buddies, some other kid did something. These are all possiable....do you think that LE hasn't ruled this all out by now? Which ones would you think LE wouldn't have ruled out? I just think there is so much here and we just don't know....it saddens me that the family of Dylan just doesn't have any answers to where there little man is by now.

...and that is why we are all here! MOO

 

[imamaze]

Who said and where was it written that Dylan was seen on the Res with his dad I think I missed that one!

It was removed as rumor because we never got a link to verify it thru main stream media. I have never read anything like that either.

Ima

 

[asyousay]

If Dylan went off fishing by himself why would he of taken his backpack with all his stuff in it ???

 

[Seajay]

I was reading something earlier about why LE isn't telling us anything and why won't they release certain information so we can move on in a direction that would help Dylan.

It reminded me of Joshua Swalls case, where he went missing. His father posted to us on his thread here at WS. According to his father, LE wasn't talking to the family, wasn't telling them anything, not what they thought, not what they found, not where they were looking. I haven't checked in with that case in about two weeks but last I knew, they still weren't given a cause of death after Josh was found in a retention pond that had previously been searched.

It's just not uncommon for LE to not share what they know with the family of the missing/victim, let alone the general public. FWIW.

 

[Dee10]

:moo:Seems you need to be a "local" to get the inside scoop from LE:moo:

:floorlaugh: If I had a nickle for people that think they are an insider just because they know someone in LE, a lawyer or judge & suddenly they 'know' how a case is investigated, etc. That poster on FB sure was on a roll anyway.

 

[Eileen730]

It was removed as rumor because we never got a link to verify it thru main stream media. I have never read anything like that either.

Ima

Oh thanks I would have remembered that !

 

[rebeccaeee]

I'm going to just throw all logic out the window and say this, he could of been picked up by who knows who, he could of made friends with someone and left with them, he could of just went into the woods(yeah I know they say that didn't happen),his father could be hiding him, he could of fallen in the lake, he could of been snatched by some sicko. His father could of done something to him, he might have family hiding him somewhere. He could of been in accident with some of his little buddies, some other kid did something. These are all possiable....do you think that LE hasn't ruled this all out by now? Which ones would you think LE wouldn't have ruled out? I just think there is so much here and we just don't know....it saddens me that the family of Dylan just doesn't have any answers to where there little man is by now.

Okay- I'll play along. I'm looking for hope too. Based on interviews with family and friends, I think LE might have been able to rule out wandering into the woods, an accident with buddies, made friends with someone new and left. Still leaves foul play by random sicko, dad, or hidden among family/associate. Unlike many here who think the hidden part might not be possible thanks to the holidays coming and going, I disagree. If I were hiding my son for the purpose of tormenting my ex, I imagine it'd be pretty easy to keep under wraps through the holidays. I doubt this one fairly strongly but ya just *never* know and right now, it's the safest way for me to think of Dylan, even if he is squirreled away out of contact with all he knows and loves.

I am hoping LE has their eyes on something or someone and is looking for a break and not a body.

 

[jjenny]

I think the chances of Dylan being hidden by a family member are slim to none.
His family members are accounted for. No one is missing. MR is in the public eye. How could he possibly hide anyone?

 

[asyousay]

Would there not be Police Liaison officers that is the go between the family and LE ?

Or is this a U,k thing ?

 

[Seajay]

Seajay I did not mean to upset you . I am just looking at the time that has passed and its never good news when it's been this long .

I hope and pray that somebody has Dylan but i think the odds are agains that but I get why people are clinging to that .

I know. Every day that goes by the hope gets dimmer and dimmer. But I still just can't wrap my mind around that little guy being dead, or that anyone would want to kill him, let alone is Dad.

 

[Seajay]

Okay- I'll play along. I'm looking for hope too. Based on interviews with family and friends, I think LE might have been able to rule out wandering into the woods, an accident with buddies, made friends with someone new and left. Still leaves foul play by random sicko, dad, or hidden among family/associate. Unlike many here who think the hidden part might not be possible thanks to the holidays coming and going, I disagree. If I were hiding my son for the purpose of tormenting my ex, I imagine it'd be pretty easy to keep under wraps through the holidays. I doubt this one fairly strongly but ya just *never* know and right now, it's the safest way for me to think of Dylan, even if he is squirreled away out of contact with all he knows and loves.

I am hoping LE has their eyes on something or someone and is looking for a break and not a body.

I can totally wrap my mind around this one. This is so what I am hoping. This way Dylan is alive, he's safe and in no danger whatsoever.

 

[DylansMom34]

Sitting in my living room on this cold New Year's Eve in Colorado. My son who not only has the same name but even the same spelling of "Dylan" is in the other room. Its hard to imagine the pain and agony Dylan Redwine's loved ones and friends are going through. My biggest hope for this new year is that LE is able to provide answers to Dylan's family. And, better yet, maybe the miracle of having Dylan return to his family, unharmed.

 

[Seajay]

Would there not be Police Liaison officers that is the go between the family and LE ?

Or is this a U,k thing ?

In the Swalls case, there wasn't, I guess. Mr. Swalls said he had a heck of a time getting anything out of LE. I read an interview he did with some crime blog where he says several times they didn't tell him what they were doing, what they thought. They never explained to him why they searched the retention pond the first time, then were able to find him at that same pond days later, or how long he had been there, how long he'd been dead when they found him. Nothing. Like I said, it's been a couple of weeks, but last I knew, the family was still waiting for a COD.

 

[Seajay]

Sitting in my living room on this cold New Year's Eve in Colorado. My son who not only has the same name but even the same spelling of "Dylan" is in the other room. Its hard to imagine the pain and agony Dylan Redwine's loved ones and friends are going through. My biggest hope for this new year is that LE is able to provide answers to Dylan's family. And, better yet, maybe the miracle of having Dylan return to his family, unharmed.

This is my fervent wish. I want this so badly for his family. When I first started on this case, I never expected it to go on for as long as it has. I thought this one would be resolved within days. It's past time for Dylan to come home.

 

[ICUDOUCME]

Okay- I'll play along. I'm looking for hope too. Based on interviews with family and friends, I think LE might have been able to rule out wandering into the woods, an accident with buddies, made friends with someone new and left. Still leaves foul play by random sicko, dad, or hidden among family/associate. Unlike many here who think the hidden part might not be possible thanks to the holidays coming and going, I disagree. If I were hiding my son for the purpose of tormenting my ex, I imagine it'd be pretty easy to keep under wraps through the holidays. I doubt this one fairly strongly but ya just *never* know and right now, it's the safest way for me to think of Dylan, even if he is squirreled away out of contact with all he knows and loves.

I am hoping LE has their eyes on something or someone and is looking for a break and not a body.

To be honest I don't think there looking for a body, they may be waiting for it to show, but there not looking. I think however they are looking for some tip to point them some where....since they keep saying the same thing, we don't have anything.