CO- Dylan Redwine, 13, Vallecito, 19 November 2012 - #29

[Confusion]

This is driving me crazy - so do both parents think that the other one is hiding Dylan?

It wouldn't surprise me. Either that or one parent thinks the other one is hiding him, and the other parent knows for sure . MOO

 

[Seajay]

This is driving me crazy - so do both parents think that the other one is hiding Dylan?

Probably. And if neither one is, they have a way bigger problem then either of them thought they did.

 

[cluciano63]

Do they really think that, I wonder? Or not able to think about him having been taken by a stranger? In most other cases, parents insist their child has been abducted.

In what possible way do they think Dylan is being hidden? How does this make one jot of sense to anyone?

 

[Confusion]

Do they really think that, I wonder? Or not able to think about him having been taken by a stranger? In most other cases, parents insist their child has been abducted.

In what possible way do they think Dylan is being hidden? How does this make one jot of sense to anyone?

I'm not saying either idea is true, or that I even believe either of them, but...

She could believe that he has him hidden somewhere near where he's been working, with a friend, or with a relative in another state. He could have been helped by one of the truck drivers he knows.

He could believe that she has him hidden in one of the houses MH has built, with a friend or relative near CS or in another state. She has friends in the area who could have picked him up and taken him somewhere.

I'd like to think that neither of them is dumb enough to think they could get away with it and somehow have him reappear later, but I can see why a parent my feel the need to believe it of the other parent just to keep some semblance of sanity. MOO

 

[TxJan1971]

Good point, this will be the lst time I will see him on film, however I only read the articles so maybe he has been interviewed on camera???

It seems LE has been quiet up-until just before the rally but it could be a co-incidence with the results coming back, etc. Maybe? I wonder if these new "additional" was the term they used interviews have been done yet? Hopefully the reporter asks that & if the forensic results have aided the case.

Dee, I do believe there are previous videos of MR speaking on camera. I could probably find the links if you really want to see them.

 

[Dee10]

This is driving me crazy - so do both parents think that the other one is hiding Dylan?

Mark had made the suggestion Dylan hitchhiked based he said on the friend(s) suggestion, plus the fishing pole. That's it that IIRC. Just Dylan's out-there somewhere...

 

[cluciano63]

I'm not saying either idea is true, or that I even believe either of them, but...

She could believe that he has him hidden somewhere near where he's been working, with a friend, or with a relative in another state. He could have been helped by one of the truck drivers he knows.

He could believe that she has him hidden in one of the houses MH has built, with a friend or relative near CS or in another state. She has friends in the area who could have picked him up and taken him somewhere.

I'd like to think that neither of them is dumb enough to think they could get away with it and somehow have him reappear later, but I can see why a parent my feel the need to believe it of the other parent just to keep some semblance of sanity. MOO

I wonder how long such deception can go on. It does not help Dylan, IMO, as I don't believe for a second this is happening. And I don't think LE does either.

 

[rebeccaeee]

I'm not saying either idea is true, or that I even believe either of them, but...

She could believe that he has him hidden somewhere near where he's been working, with a friend, or with a relative in another state. He could have been helped by one of the truck drivers he knows.

He could believe that she has him hidden in one of the houses MH has built, with a friend or relative near CS or in another state. She has friends in the area who could have picked him up and taken him somewhere.

I'd like to think that neither of them is dumb enough to think they could get away with it and somehow have him reappear later, but I can see why a parent my feel the need to believe it of the other parent just to keep some semblance of sanity. MOO

What they believe, or at least what they say in public, is evolving as well. When ER first accused MR, she definitely sounded like she believed he killed Dylan. "If I can't have him, no one can" or how she could imagine Dylan saying or doing something to set him off. Her *first* public instinct was that MR hurt him. Only later did the tone change to MR must be hiding him. She hasn't said as much directly to the news that I can recall, but the tone of their message relies on this thinking. It may well be a case of magical thinking that is simply a part of the grief process.

MR, on the other hand, went from swearing Dylan was in the lake (from day one they knew he had a fishing pole) to implying that ER has him hidden (according to some of the FMDR FB posts from the admin) to now, where he seems truly baffled.

I would love to know what ER and Cory thought and said on that long drive from Colo Springs to Bayfield. I would love to know if MR talked to anyone besides LE that first week. Above all, I would love to know what happened to Dylan.

 

[Janeumayer]

Does anybody know if LE searched the last pinged location of Dylan's phone? I wonder if MR took the phone away from Dylan and threw it out the window? It could be laying by the side of a road somewhere.

 

[rebeccaeee]

I don't really get the idea behind doing a story about a missing child, and then sitting on it for a few days. What if the child IS alive and being tortured, for instance, while the media builds up suspense for their stupid ratings?

I think these interviews were done prior to last weekend's rally as well. When FMDR was trying to get press for the rally, 9news reporter Kevin Torres said that he thought Blasius had interviewed both parents recently. I can only hope that means this will be a good, comprehensive look at the story that has taken TWO WEEKS to put together.

 

[TxJan1971]

Does anybody know if LE searched the last pinged location of Dylan's phone? I wonder if MR took the phone away from Dylan and threw it out the window? It could be laying by the side of a road somewhere.

We haven't had any confirmation about that. We can only assume LE has searched the last pinged location of either Dylan's phone or even MR's phone.

 

[Dee10]

Dee, I do believe there are previous videos of MR speaking on camera. I could probably find the links if you really want to see them.

Oh you're so sweet! :blowkiss: No-no don't waste you time...I tend to read the articles & not watch the vids, but DARN I may start doing that from now on. I am not one for body language at all...only because I can't listen & watch, I am no good on visuals! :floorlaugh: But LE, I just want to hear it YKWIM. I will wait for it, thank you so much though!

 

[Seajay]

What they believe, or at least what they say in public, is evolving as well. When ER first accused MR, she definitely sounded like she believed he killed Dylan. "If I can't have him, no one can" or how she could imagine Dylan saying or doing something to set him off. Her *first* public instinct was that MR hurt him. Only later did the tone change to MR must be hiding him. She hasn't said as much directly to the news that I can recall, but the tone of their message relies on this thinking. It may well be a case of magical thinking that is simply a part of the grief process.

MR, on the other hand, went from swearing Dylan was in the lake (from day one they knew he had a fishing pole) to implying that ER has him hidden (according to some of the FMDR FB posts from the admin) to now, where he seems truly baffled.

I would love to know what ER and Cory thought and said on that long drive from Colo Springs to Bayfield. I would love to know if MR talked to anyone besides LE that first week. Above all, I would love to know what happened to Dylan.

I think as time has gone on, they've had to think of different things it could be. What if they are both wrong and neither one of them has him??? Are they wasting valuable time directing attention at someone who doesn't have him instead of joining forces and being out there looking for him, getting his name out there, putting flyers out there and doing whatever it takes to find him??? Instead of LE wasting time focusing on one parent or the other, the valuable time should be to look for Dylan. Look. For. Dylan. First and foremost. Find Dylan first, worry about the other stuff later. JMO

 

[Confusion]

What they believe, or at least what they say in public, is evolving as well. When ER first accused MR, she definitely sounded like she believed he killed Dylan. "If I can't have him, no one can" or how she could imagine Dylan saying or doing something to set him off. Her *first* public instinct was that MR hurt him. Only later did the tone change to MR must be hiding him. She hasn't said as much directly to the news that I can recall, but the tone of their message relies on this thinking. It may well be a case of magical thinking that is simply a part of the grief process.

MR, on the other hand, went from swearing Dylan was in the lake (from day one they knew he had a fishing pole) to implying that ER has him hidden (according to some of the FMDR FB posts from the admin) to now, where he seems truly baffled.

I would love to know what ER and Cory thought and said on that long drive from Colo Springs to Bayfield. I would love to know if MR talked to anyone besides LE that first week. Above all, I would love to know what happened to Dylan.

Do you have links to that. I've never heard that he swore Dylan was in the lake. TIA

 

[cluciano63]

I think LE is looking at all options, as far as they can, always difficult if they cannot clear the adult last known to be with the child. And the FB page, billboards, etc. are seeking to spread the word, so whatever ER may think, she is not neglecting other options, IMO.

 

[TxJan1971]

What they believe, or at least what they say in public, is evolving as well. When ER first accused MR, she definitely sounded like she believed he killed Dylan. "If I can't have him, no one can" or how she could imagine Dylan saying or doing something to set him off. Her *first* public instinct was that MR hurt him. Only later did the tone change to MR must be hiding him. She hasn't said as much directly to the news that I can recall, but the tone of their message relies on this thinking. It may well be a case of magical thinking that is simply a part of the grief process.

MR, on the other hand, went from swearing Dylan was in the lake (from day one they knew he had a fishing pole) to implying that ER has him hidden (according to some of the FMDR FB posts from the admin) to now, where he seems truly baffled.

I would love to know what ER and Cory thought and said on that long drive from Colo Springs to Bayfield. I would love to know if MR talked to anyone besides LE that first week. Above all, I would love to know what happened to Dylan.

BBM
Also, in addition to thinking Dylan was at the lake, and the rest of the above...

MR thought Dylan may have hitchhiked and that he's not even in the area.

"I question why it has taken this long to start scouring the lake because from Day One they have known it is likely he had a fishing pole with him," Redwine, 52, said.

Information he received from the boy's friends suggests that Dylan was hitchhiking when he disappeared, Redwine said.

"It sounds to me like he's not even in the area," he said.

He said he is concerned that a stranger could have picked up the teen and abducted him.



Read more: Search for missing 13-year-old continues in La Plata County - The Denver Post http://www.denverpost.com/breakingn...ched-missing-boy-laplata-county#ixzz2JR4aqlq9

 

[Dee10]

BBM
Also, in addition to thinking Dylan was at the lake, and the rest of the above...

MR thought Dylan may have hitchhiked and that he's not even in the area.

"I question why it has taken this long to start scouring the lake because from Day One they have known it is likely he had a fishing pole with him," Redwine, 52, said.

Information he received from the boy's friends suggests that Dylan was hitchhiking when he disappeared, Redwine said.

"It sounds to me like he's not even in the area," he said.

He said he is concerned that a stranger could have picked up the teen and abducted him.



Read more: Search for missing 13-year-old continues in La Plata County - The Denver Post http://www.denverpost.com/breakingn...ched-missing-boy-laplata-county#ixzz2JR4aqlq9

Thanks for finding that, this was the date of the article:
Posted: 11/25/2012 09:26:25 AM MST
Updated: 11/26/2012 01:32:23 AM MST

 

[yupikgirl]

I saw something on the Facebook page (the official) last night or the night before and I forgot to post about it so this comes out of left field...and maybe already discussed. Anyway it was someone posting that they worked with MR. And that he was not technically a "truck driver" she said they drive the truck to a specific site where they are working at that time. I know we aren't allowed to quote and hopefully I paraphrased within the rules!

 

[cluciano63]

OT, but I am wondering if anyone who has since been proven guilty ever willingly went on NG to undergo that style of interviewing. Seems like something one might only do out of true desperation, IMO. Can anyone think of a person?

 

[jjenny]

Do they really think that, I wonder? Or not able to think about him having been taken by a stranger? In most other cases, parents insist their child has been abducted.

In what possible way do they think Dylan is being hidden? How does this make one jot of sense to anyone?

It might be wishful thinking on her part. If Dylan is hidden somewhere, then he is alive.