CO- Dylan Redwine, 13, Vallecito, 19 November 2012 - #29

[jjenny]

Elizabeth is probably the one child many Americans would have recognized. Very lucky indeed that she had that amount of media.

Nobody recognized her for quite some time. She was wearing a veil in public.
Until the suspect was figured out. Thanks to her little sister remembering where she heard the voice.
Here.
"Within days after America's Most Wanted aired photos and information about Mitchell, citizens who'd seen the show spotted Mitchell with two women in Sandy, and they were picked up by police. Holbrook was attending a conference in San Jose, Calif., standing next to a man on a cell phone. As soon as the man hung up his phone, Holbrook overheard him tell a third party, "They found Elizabeth Smart.""
http://www.deseretnews.com/article/...brook-2-was-guided-by-inspiration.html?pg=all

 

[cluciano63]

Well in any event, if a missing child is alive...media and SM can be useful.

 

[katydid23]

http://kdvr.com/2013/01/26/dylan-redwines-family-friends-raise-awareness-to-bring-missing-teen-home/


'''“I think it’s important to keep it out there about the last physical place that Dylan was supposed to be,” Dylan’s mother, Elaine Redwine, said in an interview Saturday near Durango.'''

IDK how to BBM so .......'''''''''' Dylan was supposed to be''''''''''' <<< bolded by me, the only way I can.

When you are writing out your reply, look up above the white box, in the upper left hand corner. There should be capital B sitting there.

When you want to make something ' bold' , you highlight the area with your cursor, then go and click on that B in the top left hand corner.

Doing so will make it appear in bold when you post.

 

[SCHMAE]

When you are writing out your reply, look up above the white box, in the upper left hand corner. There should be capital B sitting there.

When you want to make something ' bold' , you highlight the area with your cursor, then go and click on that B in the top left hand corner.

Doing so will make it appear in bold when you post.

like this ?

Ty ty ty ty !~ I hate to ask for help on some things.

 

[absentia]

Something other than Cory's statement? I can't find anything else. TIA

he's commenting quite candidly about his position/ideas.

 

[absentia]

Hi all. Just quickly popping in while Anaya is napping. Just wanted to say that I miss you all and this place! Though I am absent a lot of the time, I am still always thinking of Dylan. I hope one day soon I will be able to find time to catch up on the threads that I have missed since giving birth. Please don't forget me guys! I try to pop in when I can! :seeya:

I hope motherhood is going well!

 

[dlc]

We don't even know if he needs to, unless you go by FB. I don't live by FB.

K. Let's do this again:

http://transcripts.cnn.com/TRANSCRIPTS/1212/03/ng.01.html

Elaine, you have taken and passed a police polygraph, is that correct?

REDWINE: Yes.

GRACE: And what kind of questions did they ask you?

REDWINE: You know, just basic questions, just trying to see if I was a good candidate for the polygraph.

GRACE: What do you know about the father`s polygraph?

REDWINE: You know, I don`t know much. I know that, you know, everyone is encouraging him to take that. So hopefully, he will do that soon so we can get him out of the picture, and you know, focus on where Dylan is.

GRACE: Has the father taken a polygraph?

REDWINE: You know, I`m not sure. I know he`s been asked to.

GRACE: Do you know if he took it?

REDWINE: I do not at this time, no.

GRACE: Is it your understanding that he`s failed a polygraph?

REDWINE: No, I don`t think he failed a polygraph. You know, I don`t know the specifics behind that. I don`t think he necessarily failed. But you know, I don`t have any information on that. So it`s real -- it`s real tough for me to answer that question.

GRACE: Elaine, when you were speaking earlier to our producers, you mentioned it was your understanding that he had failed a polygraph.

REDWINE: No, I didn`t say he had failed the polygraph.

GRACE: OK. Good. I`m glad you can clarify that. So what is your understanding, then?

REDWINE: I think it was inconclusive.

GRACE: Is he being asked to take another?

REDWINE: I believe so, yes, he is.
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Such a mess with what ER said ^^^, but I will not call her out. Not my thing. She's a mom who misses her son as MR does. JMO

But yet CR said: http://www.pinerivertimes.com/news.asp?artid=1112
We just need to put pressure on the fact that mark hasn't taken a polygraph and that no effort has been shown.

Oy vey!!!!! Not calling either out, but they do need to get their act together sooner rather than later. IMO.

BBM - There are all kinds of ways to call people out, no? IMO.

 

[Confusion]

he's commenting quite candidly about his position/ideas.

I read the post by CR. She said "family", so I was asking if there was anything written by family other than CR, or if that was it.

 

[dlc]

Night all this polygraph thing, yet again, is doing me and with all the FB rumors. UGH.

So glad LE doesn't listen/go by FB b.s.

JMO.

Oh, I don't know about that. I think they listen plenty. ;-)

 

[dlc]

I read the post by CR. She said "family", so I was asking if there was anything written by family other than CR, or if that was it.

I believe that you can find posts by other family members as well. I did.

 

[dlc]

I appreciate you and your posts but I think most of this could have been avoided if ER had not blamed MR for doing something to Dylan very early on. As far as any interaction between the two of them that is all I remember her saying. So in my opinion he did not start it. jmo

In all fairness, as I recall she waited a week -- far longer than I would have, but I'm awfully mean when it comes to my children. JMO

 

[Confusion]

I believe that you can find posts by other family members as well. I did.

I've read all the new posts on there at least once today, and several more than once. Maybe it's just names I don't recognize or something, but I haven't found anything on the FB page we're allowed to discuss here other than the one by CR. Guess I can check again.

 

[Kimster]

Let's stay on track in here please. We have a lovely Jury Room for personal posting. :tyou:

 

[mck16]

I cannot sleep. I have gotten back up out of bed to post this. While I do not believe Mark Redwine had anything to do with the disappearance of his son I only feel sadness for Elaine. I cannot imagine the losss and total helplessnes she must feel. I hope that something comes to light in the following days. I hope that she and MR can come to some kind of a place where they can put thieir animosity aside and agree that this is not about them but is about their son. Please wok together work together and for the love of Dylan resolve this. jmo

 

[asyousay]

I hope they plan to apologise on the page if that guy is totally innocent as seems a bit off just to publicly flog him . :cow:

 

[MissJ]

When is the last time LE said anything specific about MR cooperating? Or that he continues to cooperate?

Thank you for your post! :rocker: Also, I don't think any one of us is suggesting MR should talk to US or answer our questions. Some of us feel he owes it to ER and CR to answer their questions. Its not about him.:moo:

 

[asyousay]

Thank you for your post! :rocker: Also, I don't think any one of us is suggesting MR should talk to US or answer our questions. Some of us feel he owes it to ER and CR to answer their questions. Its not about him.:moo:

I think even if he can't stand Elaine and Cory then he should be pro-active in the searches and do more public speaking as why should it all be down to Elaine as she is not the only parent here :cow:

 

[Cardinal47]

WRT the above BBM.. IMO regardless of my opinion on when/what/how/where the wide, gaping divide came to be, its been IMO clear that the dynamics are not going to have Dylan's parents(and immediate core family) a united force working relentlessly until their son/brother is found, alive or deceased whatever the case may be..just to FIND HIM and bring their young loved one home..IMO I've known that united front is just not going to be.

So, impo I've never looked at it from a standpoint of Mark being "with"..or joined.. or coming together with Elaine in endeavors such as FB for their son.. IMO there are multiple issues as to why that'd never happen..IMO possibly even certain personal dynamics are likely to be some of the contributing factors to why...such as some of dad's personal dynamics that Cory publicly shared today..that when Mark Redwine believes himself to be "right" that he has zero hesitation of being upfront, and center, with spotlight on him continuing to stand up for what he knows as the truth, as in what's "right".

IMO MOST WOULD AGREE nothing like that is happening, tho.. and imo not happening for any cause be it Dylan or otherwise..its just absent.

IMO IT ISNT HAPPENING and yet THIS IS HIS YOUNGEST SON BEING GONE, NO LONGER HERE, AND NOT A CLUE IF HE IS EVEN ALIVE that Mark Redwine is uncharacteristicly NOT at ALL standing firm, not backing down, relentlessly pursuing that he is right, that he is not involved in his son's no longer being here, and he'll be damned to back down even a step from relentlessly pursuing FINDING DYLAN ..

Because IMO the fact is that Mark's greatest thing he's got on his side is that his dogged determination, and steadfast aggressive hunt for Dylan that in the end when this precious young man, his son is found..then so, too is Mark's innocence shoved in everyone's face without Mark Redwine ever so much as uttering a word to anyone about his once again standing his ground, with no backing down for what he knew was "right"...that "right" being the TRUTH and what's been the truth all along..

None of that in any way whatsoever requires Mark Redwine joining forces with Dylan's mom and brother to show a united front for Dylan to be found.. Mark Redwine is a grown man with alotta years of life experiences under his belt, a man fully capable of standing up for himself, and even going the distance in standing his ground when he knows he's "right" even if others may not agree or see it the way Mark does( I'm speaking of issues IN NO WAY related to Dylan or Dylan's disappearance)..

So, why not now?.. why not here in the situation of literally epic proportions when your youngest son's entire life is whats on the line?..why not use that hard headed aggression of firmly standing your ground, not backing down and be at that forefront in place of Dylan...be the voice for Dylan who cannot speak because he's gone.. plowing forward with that same fierce determination and hard stance..using that aggression hunting for your baby boy?

Just as Mark made mention of in today's interview he had made or come upon a connection of what he found to be an excellent avenue of raising funds for Dylan(ie. The raffle he mentioned).. He was irritated with the fact that he says Elaine did not choose to pursue this particular avenue..well..IMO as briefly described above Mark's a man who knows exactly how to get things done, even standing his ground if need be.. and there is absolutely NOTHING OR NO ONE that is stopping him, blocking him, nor in any way keeping him from getting things done in this search for Dylan..There's absolutely no reason that Mark as the other parent to this young, missing child, Dylan can't seek out and move forward with any avenue that he sees fitting that will help find his son..including raising money if that's what he thinks is needed to find Dylan, or if he feels it would somehow provide better or bigger services to aid in the search for his son...

Well..here's a lucrative opportunity according to him that he's complaining his ex wife didn't pursue..well..then IMO step up and get to it..in his opinion this is something that needs to be done to help his son...he came upon or sought out this opportunity so move forward with it.. Elaine has avenues that have already proven successful in raising moneys to aid in the search of Dylan being found and brought home.. she is already well into working various avenues...so, too can Mark be doing the exact same thing, it doesn't have to be just one parent that must being following and pursuing all avenues..so, too can the other parent and anyone else he'd like to bring in to help or assist him in any way.

(* THE ONLY REASON THAT I AM USING THE RAISING FUNDS AVENUE IS DIRECTLY DUE TO MARK'S STATEMENT TODAY ABOUT IT..*)

But yet again I reflect on what's happening and that Mark's uncharacteristically not using his hard headed determination and ability to weather the storm when he knows he's "right" about something... to plant himself in the forefront standing his ground when he knows he's "right" with the ain't nobody gonna be able to prove any different type fortitude.. all of these abilities and strengths would be absolutely priceless at this moment in time when it counts the most with your youngest child's entire life hanging in the balance..

But that's not happening!:banghead:

Mark has much to say WRT what he feels Elaine is doing wrong, about what Elaine's not doing but should be doing, about what Cory is not doing as well as letting everyone know whose fault it really is that Cory has less than an overflowing heart full of love for his dad because that's due to Elaine as well(in that Cory's having issues with dad is the fault of mom because she hates Mark).. OK, now that we have a detailed description of what Elaine and Cory are failing to do correctly in dad's opinion, but....

Again we see nothing happening with Mark using what could be priceless advantages to forging ahead in finding Dylan.. Mark using those type of stubborn-ish steadfast determination abilities that he's used for proving when he knows he's "right" .. he could be taking that similar stance in this fight of a lifetime in finding his son, Dylan!...

But that's NOT HAPPENING!!!!!!!!:banghead:

of course as always these are nothing more than jmo.

It takes a village to do all the good things ER has been able to accomplish in the search for Dylan.

Mark has no village.

 

[asyousay]

It takes a village to do all the good things ER has been able to accomplish in the search for Dylan.

Mark has no village.

And why's this ???


Most communities come together when a child is missing but Mark has very little support and I have to conclude there must be a reason for this .

He has not got close relationships with his children and even tho he is meant to have money he gave some of his children up so he did not have to pay child support !


This does not mean he is capable of murder but it does raise questions about the kind of man/father he is :cow:

 

[aust amateur slueth]

It takes a village to do all the good things ER has been able to accomplish in the search for Dylan.

Mark has no village.

would the reason for that be because he has hidden himself away?

his behaviour is the reason the village is not behind him and he can't blame his behaviour on anyone but himself.