CO- Dylan Redwine, 13, Vallecito, 19 November 2012 - #31

[Deleted member 39678]

One parent hiding children from the other parent is not OK. I don't care if they are in a secret mountain cabin or Disneyworld

I agree. But I still want to know the details. Has any details of this event been published in MSM?

 

[Kamille]

I tend to believe Mark when he said that the time was tentative. Who gets to ultimately decide when and where a 13 year old gets to go? The 13 year old or his father? MOO.

I agree that the parent gets to ultimately decide when and where the child gets to go but that decision would have to be firmed up before going to bed for the night, especially when there is another person involved in those plans.

Why wasn't this done?

MOO

 

[DylansMom34]

I agree. But I still want to know the details. Has any details of this event been published in MSM?

Again it was brought up on Thursdays interview of Cory. So it happened according to that report. If you contact the reporter maybe she can give more info.

 

[Deleted member 39678]

I agree that the parent gets to ultimately decide when and where the child gets to go but that decision would have to be firmed up before going to bed for the night, especially when there is another person involved in those plans.

Why wasn't this done?

MOO

That's a good question. R deserved to be notified of a confirmed time of arrival.

 

[cluciano63]

However one see this case, IMO, it is difficult for me to pretend that MR is your basic non-custodial dad. I happen to believe Azgrandma as to what she has shared about him. He has been charged with "menacing" in the past, which even if eventually dismissed, is alarming to me. I have never known anyone charged with that, sounds scary. His older children seem to have chosen not to have contact with him. His most recent ex, ER, has voiced fears as to how he might react if Dylan made him mad.

So to me, all of that has to at least be taken into consideration, now that Dylan is seemingly gone without a trace. MR is extremely, astonishingly unlucky in that his child vanishes under his care and during such a tight, non-threatening timeframe, in such a remote area. Or there is more to it.

 

[Deleted member 39678]

Again it was brought up on Thursdays interview of Cory. So it happened according to that report. If you contact the reporter maybe she can give more info.

Do you have a link to that interview so I can see what he said?

 

[scorekeeper]

Mark took/hid/didn't permit contact with other parent

Not once

but with both ex-wives

that says a lot about the type of person he is

 

[mck16]

I thought it was for a week and Cory said he missed a week of school. Also azgrandma said he did it with her kids and she did file a report.

I really am sorry Psychic, but do you have a link for these. or an approximate date to search. ty

 

[Confusion]

Don't know about that but with grandma, she said as soon as the police were involved he returned the kids. I would bet LE would chalk an incident like this up to a ' custody/civil' dispute since they were returned quickly and then LE doesn't have to fiddle with paperwork and charges. Just a guess.

I'm sure she'll correct me if I'm wrong, but what I understood her to say was that he didn't return the kids when he was supposed to. When asked when he actually did return them, she said the next day. I'm not sure if she meant the day after he was supposed to, the day after LE was contacted, or both. MOO

 

[dlc]

I think mr has a hard time expressing verbally all of the things in his mind and it comes out not really like he's thinking it. I think he meant to convey that the friend he wanted to visit was indeed the same one that was trying to text him on Monday. He knew the listeners knew about those texts from the news so he threw that comment in there.

Also I think if mr was texting and pretending to be Dylan, it would be obvious to the friends.

BBM


I agree that with longer pieces of texting or writing, there are usually stylistic indicators, but many of the responses were one or two words.

 

[NC Analyzer]

Do you have a link to that interview so I can see what he said?

All links to MSM, videos and the wonderful detailed time-frame document put together by TXJan1971, can be found on the first page of every thread. Hope this helps.

 

[SCHMAE]

Again it was brought up on Thursdays interview of Cory. So it happened according to that report. If you contact the reporter maybe she can give more info.

Since the reporter's angle seems to be ' one of the parents hiding dylan ?? '' then surely she asked about that event in some detail. Surely the 2.5 hrs of stuff we get to view soon will have more info !

 

[dlc]

If Mark did send R those texts to coverup something, why didn't he continue doing it in the morning in response to R's 6:46 AM text asking "where are you"?

http://www.durangoherald.com/article/20121215/NEWS01/121219687

Because it was getting more complicated -- the time for Dylan to "go missing" was near. IMO.

 

[Psychic Sleuth]

I really am sorry Psychic, but do you have a link for these. or an approximate date to search. ty

I believe this was stated by Cory on FB (as someone else here also mentioned). I do remember reading it but I couldn't tell you exactly where it was posted on FB.

 

[Kamille]

That's a good question. R deserved to be notified of a confirmed time of arrival.

Yes and MR should have more information about an actual discussion with Dylan regarding this plan between the boys rather than just stating there was some discussion of a tentative plan. He was tentatively supposed to be dropping his son off very early at a friend's grandparent's home the next morning. What parent would not make sure that plan was firmed up before going to bed?

MOO

 

[scorekeeper]

I believe this was stated by Cory on FB (as someone else here also mentioned). I do remember reading it but I couldn't tell you exactly where it was posted on FB.

I think it was also discussed in the Parking Lot thread

I believe Cory discussed it in his posts to FB

 

[Tennlyn]

I still question whether the 9:37 pm 'communication' was actually R's 9:27 pm text message being received by Dylan's cellphone? :moo:

If so, that would mean that there were 2 text messages sent by R that Dylan did not acknowledge, one some time shortly after 8 pm depending on how frequently R's iphone is sent to reapply timestamps, and the one eventually received by Dylan at 9:37 pm. :moo:

So, could those 2 messages be what MR was referring to in the 'uncut' interview as Dylan's friends trying to text him? What was Dylan doing between after 8 pm that kept him from acknowledging those texts? I'm very much interested in the timeframe from about 8:15 pm until 9:37 pm. :moo: :moo: :moo:

I have not ruled anything out. Just trying to firmly understand the timeline before moving on to Monday morning.

 

[mck16]

I thought it was for a week and Cory said he missed a week of school. Also azgrandma said he did it with her kids and she did file a report.

I really am sorry Psychic, but do you have a link for these. or an approximate date to search. ty

 

[scorekeeper]

anyone ever find out what that lady wanted? FB/websleuths?

 

[MissJ]

I thought the we were allowed to sleuth, and discuss what's been said in MSM or on FB, but not make unfounded accusations. MOO

It is not unfounded. The only way to solve any missing persons case is by checking last known details. Mark was the last person seen with him. Statistically he is more likely to have done something with him. More likely than a random perp. That is fact.:moo: