CO- Dylan Redwine, 13, Vallecito, 19 November 2012 - #35

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  • #461
So in cases where the family supports the possible suspect...does that mean they are not guilty? It has to go both ways.

nope, didn't say that.. its just yet another in a long list of issues that continue to be red flags and many are very concerned about those numerous red flags and what it means for Dylan..his family are some of those concerned. that's my point and nothing else!
 
  • #462
So in cases where the family supports the possible suspect...does that mean they are not guilty? It has to go both ways.

Actually I don't believe that goes both ways. I think families naturally want to protect and believe their own. I don't think they would naturally think someone they are related to (or once loved) could do something like this.
 
  • #463
I have never followed a missing child case before so I am looking to WS for this answer.

Have there been any cases where the FAMILY thought the dad was guilty and later it was proven that he was not?

I know there are many times when public opinion puts the guilt label on the father/stepfather and it turns out they were wrong. But has the immediate family ever been wrong in that way?

It's really bothering me this week that both ER and AZG feel MR could be involved and now I am back on the :fence:

This is my first WS rodeo, too. I keep thinking about the compassion, trust, and respect that this forum/community has developed toward them. As for MR, decidedly more suspicion, distrust, and doubt.

I've been in conferences with married couples (and divorced ones, too) where one member is lovely and the other is horrid-- hostile, aggressive, accusatory. How can these two people have coexisted?

When I'm caught in the crossfire (and often on the receiving end of the hostility) I try soothe myself with these thoughts: She is a kind woman. I respect her. She chose to marry him. Even though he is being hateful right now, surely he must have good qualities that are not visible in this stressful situation.


My heart aches when I read ER's and AZG's self doubt about the possibility of choosing a (former) partner who could potentially have harmed a child.

I think maybe he has good qualities and positive attributes that they were once drawn to-- that maybe just aren't visible anymore... or in this situation...
 
  • #464
welcome to websleuths agent.veritas! Great first post :cheer:
 
  • #465
So excited to see a new tip! This could be what breaks the case either way! I have seen these turn out to be nothing and I have also seen tips like these break the entire case-praying for the last one obviously!

Are the rental houses/properties empty? I wonder? And/or searched?
 
  • #466
This is my first WS rodeo, too. I keep thinking about the compassion, trust, and respect that this forum/community has developed toward them. As for MR, decidedly more suspicion, distrust, and doubt.

I've been in conferences with married couples (and divorced ones, too) where one member is lovely and the other is horrid-- hostile, aggressive, accusatory. How can these two people have coexisted?

When I'm caught in the crossfire (and often on the receiving end of the hostility) I try soothe myself with these thoughts: She is a kind woman. I respect her. She chose to marry him. Even though he is being hateful right now, surely he must have good qualities that are not visible in this stressful situation.


My heart aches when I read ER's and AZG's self doubt about the possibility of choosing a (former) partner who could potentially have harmed a child.

I think maybe he has good qualities and positive attributes that they were once drawn to-- that maybe just aren't visible anymore... or in this situation...

UNFORTUNATELY people deceive, manipulate, and sell themselves as something they are not all the time.. we interact daily with people who can be both charming and manipulative, this type person IMO is not a rarity.
 
  • #467
Even though there are lots of dissenting opinions about the who-what-why of this situation, there is so much we all have in common. Namely, a deep, sincere concern for others that we've never even met and most likely never will. Also, a willingness to spend a part of our day gathering to pool resources and discuss angles and perspectives with the hope of restoring a family. That's big. That's powerful.

I'm honored to join your team.
 
  • #468
The whole Hispanic male thing is just LE covering "tips" and dotting their "i's." IMHO. Cortez and Ignacio reservations are right by Durango and there's lots of Native American/Hispanic males around. My first thought upon hearing this "new lead" is Susan Smith's story of a black male......

Mark Redwine's divorce from Elaine was FIVE years ago. Who the heck talks like this as an opener about his SON being missing while being gently asked questions (kudos to Melissa and her gentle, non-interogrative questions):

"We were inseparable. I mean… anywhere I was he was right there beside me. You know, he would come to me before he would go to his mom. You know... I think in many ways that was part of the problems that developed in our relationship was because while she was out earning a career, it was very difficult for her to lose sight of the fact that she wasn’t there bonding with Dylan the way I was and I think that that was a huge problem for her. And I think that that has been a problem for her for a long time now."

Has there been new video released? The "uncut" video I saw you couldn't hear her "first" question. MOO
 
  • #469
Welcome Agent to WS.. Wonderful post
 
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  • #471
I know it was mentioned quite a ways back- but does anyone know if the house across the street for sale, had a lockbox that records it being opened ( sorry , what ever it is called) , and if LE ever checked to see if it was accessed that Monday morning?
Just on the off chance that someone, good or bad, was there?
 
  • #472
Well my hinky meter is going off and I'm just trying to think of why the P.I. was posting about this Hispanic male last week on the FMDR page and the tip was not called in until the weekend? Why would the tipster wait until the weekend to call it in?


Psychic Sleuth - are you positive about which page that was posted on?

Thanks.
 
  • #473
I know it was mentioned quite a ways back- but does anyone know if the house across the street for sale, had a lockbox that records it being opened ( sorry , what ever it is called) , and if LE ever checked to see if it was accessed that Monday morning?
Just on the off chance that someone, good or bad, was there?

The house for sale is NOT across the street. It's down the side street, aways.

http://www.stgeorgeutah.com/news/ar...an-redwine-criminal-investigation-new-photos/ <scroll down>

NOTE the arrow pointing?

Side note: Stats from the US Census for La Plata County v CO state
http://quickfacts.census.gov/qfd/states/08/08067.html

White persons, percent, 2011 (a) 89.7% 88.3%
Black persons, percent, 2011 (a) 0.6% 4.3%
American Indian and Alaska Native persons, percent, 2011 (a) 6.3% 1.6%
Asian persons, percent, 2011 (a) 0.8% 2.9%
Native Hawaiian and Other Pacific Islander persons, percent, 2011 (a) 0.1% 0.2%
Persons reporting two or more races, percent, 2011 2.5% 2.7%
Persons of Hispanic or Latino Origin, percent, 2011 (b) 12.2% 20.9%
White persons not Hispanic, percent, 2011 79.8% 69.7%

For Durango per race/population:


White alone - 13,276 (78.6%)
Hispanic - 2,074 (12.3%)
American Indian alone - 970 (5.7%)
Two or more races - 313 (1.9%)
Asian alone - 132 (0.8%)
Black alone - 89 (0.5%)
Other race alone - 26 (0.2%)
Native Hawaiian and Other Pacific Islander alone - 7 (0.04%)

Read more: http://www.city-data.com/city/Durango-Colorado.html#ixzz2KkTCKLxh

Bayfield race/population:

White alone - 1,899 (81.4%)
Hispanic - 309 (13.2%)
American Indian alone - 76 (3.3%)
Two or more races - 37 (1.6%)
Asian alone - 6 (0.3%)
Black alone - 4 (0.2%)
Native Hawaiian and Other Pacific Islander alone - 1 (0.04%)
Other race alone - 1 (0.04%)

Read more: http://www.city-data.com/city/Bayfield-Colorado.html#ixzz2KkTPY3pt

Read more: http://www.city-data.com/city/Durango-Colorado.html#ixzz2KkSxmvG1


Marshall's office is in BAYFIELD. Sheriff's office is in DURANGO.

All land around Vallecito Lake/reservoir is PUBLIC land. See map:
[ame="http://maps.google.com/maps?q=San+Juan+National+Forest,+Bayfield,+CO&hl=en&ll=37.474858,-107.715454&spn=2.275591,4.295654&sll=29.477608,-98.514404&sspn=0.624056,1.073914&oq=San+Juan+National&hq=San+Juan+National+Forest,+Bayfield,+CO&t=m&z=8"]San Juan National Forest, Bayfield, CO - Google Maps[/ame]

Green = public land
 
  • #474
Actually I don't believe that goes both ways. I think families naturally want to protect and believe their own. I don't think they would naturally think someone they are related to (or once loved) could do something like this.

What comes to mind when I read this is: "Guess you have never been divorced!" Sometimes divorces are friendly, but most times they are filled with hate and lots of anger. Even five years later and beyond. My relationship with my ex didn't really settle down for about ten to fifteen years. We never saw eye to eye when it came to the kids, and he always knew how to push my buttons. He finally settled down when he remarried and finished paying child support.

Nothing I have read about their relationship has surprised me. Many divorces are like theirs. The fact that they are still arguing and seeing attorneys doesn't surprise me. Anytime you have to deal with an ex there is potential for problems. Just saying....
 
  • #475
"The house for sale is NOT across the street. It's down the side street, aways."

Even if the house is down aways, the for sale sign is across from Dylan's house. A perv could easily use that as an excuse to strike up a conversation. "I see the for sale sign, but I can't find the house. Can you point out the house for me?" Just a thought...
 
  • #476
[ame="http://websleuths.com/forums/showpost.php?p=8807507&postcount=203"]Websleuths Crime Sleuthing Community - View Single Post - CO CO- Dylan Redwine, 13, Vallecito, 19 November 2012 - #32[/ame]

About those "footprints" ^^^^^^ ????????????

The road is paved: Will try my best to give you all a visual of the road that MR lives on.
http://www.thedenverchannel.com/new...edwines-father-does-not-call-father-a-suspect

http://www.durangoherald.com/article/20121129/NEWS01/121129570

Both: watch the vids. Please choose to blow the vids up to full screen to SEE.

There is NO dirt to see any sort of "foot print" distinctive or not. JMO. Been there, done that. There was dead grass/weeds/driveways/ up to the pavement. No DIRT to leave a print upon.
JMO.
 
  • #477
Well pardon me, I erred in saying a house ACROSS the street was for sale...I recalled there was one in the immediate vicinity, but not precisely where is was in correlation to MR's house.
 
  • #478
"The house for sale is NOT across the street. It's down the side street, aways."

Even if the house is down aways, the for sale sign is across from Dylan's house. A perv could easily use that as an excuse to strike up a conversation. "I see the for sale sign, but I can't find the house. Can you point out the house for me?" Just a thought...

The house for sale is across from MR house with the arrow pointing down the street...... Correct.

Here are the rentals in the Vallecito Lake/Res. area: (as of now)
http://www.vrbo.com/vacation-rentals/usa/colorado/southwest/vallecito-lake

^^^^^ is just ONE place to look for rentals.
My dad's family has owned a home there since before I was born. My dad DOES rent out the home when the "family" isn't using the property.

Vallecito is a special place to me. I grew up there (summers). My kids grew up there. My entire family has loved and protected that area ... forever. One reason I went there to search for a wonderful young man named Dylan.
 
  • #479
Well pardon me, I erred in saying a house ACROSS the street was for sale...I recalled there was one in the immediate vicinity, but not precisely where is was in correlation to MR's house.

No need to pardon. The SIGN is/was across the street, but the property is down aways.

Didn't mean to be harsh. Sorry if I was. Sorry.
 
  • #480
The house for sale is across from MR house with the arrow pointing down the street...... Correct.

Here are the rentals in the Vallecito Lake/Res. area: (as of now)
http://www.vrbo.com/vacation-rentals/usa/colorado/southwest/vallecito-lake

^^^^^ is just ONE place to look for rentals.
My dad's family has owned a home there since before I was born. My dad DOES rent out the home when the "family" isn't using the property.

Vallecito is a special place to me. I grew up there (summers). My kids grew up there. My entire family has loved and protected that area ... forever. One reason I went there to search for a wonderful young man named Dylan.

Nice to see you here Ransom and glad to have someone with knowledge of the area to comment.
 
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