Good question, if I am wrong, I will certainly apologize and do it with sincerity. My boys are wonderful strong men, they are compassionate and caring, so yes, they would feel bad as well. What I can say is this, so far we have been given NOTHING by the one person that can give us answers to make us think anything else. He doesn't owe me any answers, but by not answering the basic of questions, it is up to the audience to determine. You fill in the blanks that aren't filled. If they are wrong it's not for a lack of trying it's for a lack of information.
BTW I don't feel that you are being mean or factious or a smarty pants at all. I have always said that I will answer what I can, when I can. There are some questions for whatever reason to me I will not answer or just plain don't feel like it.