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That's true... although maybe at that time she still felt "he had no game" so couldn't possibly be cheating, so still had hope it was something they could work out (aside from the $60 dinner charge the night before). Perhaps when it all came out she'd feel differently but that's pure speculation. Her entire lifestyle was going to change because of lack of his income, and that alone might have affected her immensely. She did certainly seem to be kinder than I would have expected, even in discussing this with her friends.I don’t think she would make his life a living hell and I also think she would have accepted a divorce. Her texts to him asking what was wrong were not threatening even though she suspected he was cheating. She pleaded for him to tell her if he wanted out or was just staying for the kids but she never gave ultimatums or made “there is going to be hell to pay” statements. She was much kinder then I would have been if I thought my husband was cheating. I would expect some anger as they work through the process, she did not come across to me as a vindictive scorned wife. She has received such a bad rap as controlling but look at Chris, you know whoever he was with would have to step up and make the decisions. She took charge not through beating him down but out of necessity.