I personally think after being with my hubby since {{cough}} '77 that it takes more than bad financial issues/ mismanagement to cause such hatred and anger in a marriage. The only time I have ever seen any relationship cause such discourse always involved an on the side relationship by one of the couple man or woman. It doesn't always happen immediately. Some couples stew on it for some time before they react. The hatred grows like a volcano until it explodes. It doesn't take much at that point to lose control. I don't think there's a third party abduction in this case but something has told me as I stated way in the beginning that being stuck with a spouse during a pandemic that was used to being secretive and having an affair must be high tension. mooWhile i am still leaning towards Barry being guilty, its still quite possible for a husband and wife to be having a terrible relationship full of arguments,fights, affairs etc and even hate each other yet at the same time a random stranger could one day decided to murder/kidnap either one of them. Like i say i don't believe that is the case here, for me there are a huge amount of red flags on barry,but just because a couple is not getting on and maybe don't even care about each other any more and are fighting or having affairs doesn't make them immune to being kidnapped or murdered by a stranger.