Found Deceased CO - Suzanne Morphew, 49, did not return from bike ride, Chaffee County, 10 May 2020 #33

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  • #21
Unless some new info. is revealed, it's likely that if Suzanne met her demise on the evening of May 9th --that only one person was responsible.
Curious if both Suzanne and BM were alone at their home all day Fri. and Sat. ?
Did anyone stop by and notice something unusual ?

That being said, I'm wondering if any people connected to BM through work or something else -- will come forward; and that's what LS' most recent news will contain ?
Is someone speaking up ?

Am trying to guess what the updates are !
At the end of the day... all that matters is finding Suzanne .
I believe we're all in agreement on that point.
Just a complete guess and opinion on my part.
I think there may be others who worked for/with Barry are spilling some tea.
 
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I found out that there is one life-changing moment, and it happens to many.

It is what ensues when spouses/couples spending most time together, get separated for a very trivial reason (one goes for a trip, or a hike, or just visits sick parents, or something else equally mundane). And the other one stays home. And suddenly realizes that he/she is expecting the return of the partner with...horror, boredom, fear, anger, you name it. It is not merely lack of love, it is an active wish that the partner doesn’t come back.

In most, normal, reasonable, people, such insight eventually leads to a divorce. In itself, this sudden awakening (“we are too different”, “I don’t want her/him to return”) is usually a positive, liberating, event. But few start contemplating something more sinister than leaving. Either because they don’t want to pay for the divorce, or because they are limited, mentally.

I think in the Ms’ family, it was Suzanne’s illness and hospitalization that set a very specific pattern of thinking in her husband’s head. Before, they didn’t part for long, and I don’t think the move changed anything, they were still a family. But her illness - Suzanne changed, and she was spending a lot of time in the hospital, and there was the risk of her dying.

But she survived, and returned back, and disappeared.
How do I say yes, yes, no, yes, no, yes and yes again. And no, I didn't keep up, lol.

I don't think he was ever invested in this marriage as an equal partner. Suzanne knew her place.
Whether she was a grade school teacher, she was first and utmost his wife who cleaned and cooked, a maid and an asset. A very pretty one.

Then she was a mother to his children and did the same, without acting up or having a voice. Keeping the peace for the sake of her daughters.

Once she failed in her duties, she wasn't valuable. And, I mean all duties.
It was her fault she had cancer. Not his problem. He couldn't sit through ONE of her chemo sessions.
Don't even know why he showed up. Maybe it was one of his daughter's suggestions - hoping he may have some compassion for their mother.

I'm going to go one further (or twelve).
Suppose his fragile ego was butthurt that SM could no longer wantingly cater to him and his whims without questioning his love and care for her.
And/or/especially the and, suppose someone else was showing him interest that was all about him, fulfilling his needy psyche and all that entails.

It happens, especially when a partner has an illness. Wimpy *** only thinks about himself.
Then, SM is conveying, let's say, to friends that she's unhappy and is thinking of getting a divorce. Her husband finds out. She also confronts him about financial issues and a possible affair - let's just suppose.
Add to that, a large inheritance that BM may not have access to - not talking about the $500K that went into the CO home. That's fifty fifty, at this point.
I guess that covers it for now. I don't have all twelve in me, it's late, but there's more than that.
I'm not saying any of this happened or is relevant to this relationship, even though I do believe it all is, and more.
This is pure conjecture and JMO, my own perspective and my instinctive intuition.
IMO
 
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Suzanne's expression in this picture and what it says just haunts me.
 
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I would agree if they are working in concert with LE. But it sounds like they are criticizing the investigation.
Good cop, bad cop.

I'm completely ok with any tactic they want to use that leads to an arrest with a solid case.
 
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@NoSI I have no idea how to reply from a previous thread, but I am going out for the search as well. I have not heard back from my registration, but I have been in contact with others related to the search.
 
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Suzanne's disappearance has always made me think of the Karen Ristevski case in Australia. She was supposedly missing after taking a walk. She ended up being found years later in a wooded area not too far from home. Husband did pleas for her return and stated his innocence. His story now is she died during an argument.
I guess there are many cases like this.
MOO
The case that this most reminds me of is Susan Powell, not that they have small children, but I do believe the camping trip was a convenient plan for BM to have time for his diabolical plan. I am not of the belief that he just came in Saturday night and an argument ensued and something just happened off the cuff. I feel that he had plans made, claims of a class or job so he could be out of town, hotel reservations and a supposed job that he could call a worker to come and do so he could have an alibi to head home. then he wanted us to believe she went "missing" I would not be surprised if he has told Suzanne's girls that he has to do this and that with money so one can stay in college and the other can have the same lifestyle she is accustomed to. I just pray that if and when it comes down to brass tacks that we are not looking at an ending like the Powell children endured.
 
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The case that this most reminds me of is Susan Powell, not that they have small children, but I do believe the camping trip was a convenient plan for BM to have time for his diabolical plan. I am not of the belief that he just came in Saturday night and an argument ensued and something just happened off the cuff. I feel that he had plans made, claims of a class or job so he could be out of town, hotel reservations and a supposed job that he could call a worker to come and do so he could have an alibi to head home. then he wanted us to believe she went "missing" I would not be surprised if he has told Suzanne's girls that he has to do this and that with money so one can stay in college and the other can have the same lifestyle she is accustomed to. I just pray that if and when it comes down to brass tacks that we are not looking at an ending like the Powell children endured.
Agreed; hope that doesn't happen in this case.

I doubt it will, as my opinion is that LE are keeping an eye on someone.
More than one pair of eyes, so to speak !
 
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Here is some other questions that I would like to ask friends or family of Suzanne, was Barry one of the I know and have done everything better than you? You know the people who no matter what someone else says or has done can always top them say like 400 tours in the military or searching 200 miles with "his guys" and was he the kind of guy who was always right and was never the kind to say I'm sorry I made a mistake no matter what happened. Was he the kind of husband that was my way or the highway? Would he be considered abusive just for the words that came out of his mouth? And was he always caught saying one thing one time and something different about the same thing the next time? Had he been this way for 26 years? Or this how he is since his wife went "missing" know the answers to some of these questions could go a long way to answer a lot of questions.
 
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Agreed; hope that doesn't happen in this case.

I doubt it could as my opinion is that LE are keeping an eye on someone.
More than one pair of eyes, so to speak !
Well Josh Powell had a whole community looking at him and a court appointed supervisor for his supervised visitation with his kids, but he was able to chop of their heads with an axe and blow up the house with the court appointed advocate in the driveway. I pray there is more attention being paid here than there was there.
 
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@NoSI I have no idea how to reply from a previous thread, but I am going out for the search as well. I have not heard back from my registration, but I have been in contact with others related to the search.
You can't directly reply to a post from a prior thread (that has been closed). The best you can do is to "cut and paste" the original post (credit the member) in your reply.

On a different subject, thank you so much for participating in the late September search. I know all of us will be with you in spirit.:)
 
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Suzanne's disappearance has always made me think of the Karen Ristevski case in Australia. She was supposedly missing after taking a walk. She ended up being found years later in a wooded area not too far from home. Husband did pleas for her return and stated his innocence. His story now is she died during an argument.
I guess there are many cases like this.
MOO

This poor grieving husband, lied continually.
Remember, he helped carry her coffin.
The Creep.
 
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@NoSI I have no idea how to reply from a previous thread, but I am going out for the search as well. I have not heard back from my registration, but I have been in contact with others related to the search.

Good on you KLM6.:):):)
The more helpers the better, letting BM know, how important SM is.
 
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The teasers. etc., are to keep the public coming back, to listen to more interviews and updates and ways the public can help...
to keep this case and SM's situation in the public's mind and hearts.
And I'm 100% okay with that.
These guys don't have to do this, they want to.
And that's awesome.
It's not entertainment, it's genuine compassion and caring.
We'd all be lucky to have these guys in our corner if we ever needed them.

jmo
AMEN.
Add to that, LS isn't a talking head on the 6 o'clock news who's reading a teleprompter.
She's an investigative reporter who has a lot of people to answer to, needs time to get the story together, editors who'll do as they will, get it into a specified time frame and she isn't in charge of a sound bite feed for the next day's broadcast.
It's not all about the 'fake news' rhetoric.
She works hard and we and Suzanne's family are lucky to have her working diligently to shine a light on this case and bring SM home.
Respectfully.
 
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Good Evening, All.

Baked a pan of these in my 87 degree F. kitchen yesterday . . .

Cinnamon rolls, in a nod to Kelsey Berreth.

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Tonight Chris @ProfilingEvil said Websleuths is going to donate money to help feed searchers. Is there a place where members can help Tricia with donations?
 
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ETA
Questions i'd like answers to:

1. Had Suzanne consulted an attorney for marital issues.
2. Do we know that the security system was inop? How long had it not been functioning?
3. Is the bike mechanic the last to see her alive, other than what BM states?
4. I still have trouble reconciling the estranged behavior of the Moorman family to SM and her family. How and why wouldn't they be speaking to the family left behind in Indiana?
5. where is she?
6. What happened to splinter the relationship between SM and her family?

Many more i'm sure, but those are a jumping off point.
 
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Questions i'd like answers to:

1. Has Suzanne consulted an attorney for marital issues.
2. Do we know that the security system was inop? How long had it not been functioning?
3. Is the bike mechanic the last to see her alive, other than what BM states?
4. I still have trouble reconciling the estranged behavior of the Moorman family to SM and her family. How and why would they be speaking to the family left behind in Indiana?
5. where is she?
6. What happened to splinter the relationship between SM and her family?

Many more i'm sure, but those are a jumping off point.
these are all great questions, none of which i can anwser, but IMO i believe moving to Colorado may have been a tactic to gain further control of the family and limit outside influence from close family members
 
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