With respect to the Morphew girls, I am hopeful that they will follow the example of their mother, who seems to have exemplified a fascinating phenomenon called "post-traumatic growth." Her recovery from the first onset of cancer and the advent of children seems to have led to her spiritual growth, exemplified by her ability to apply all the elements of Christian love: generosity, kindness, compassion, forgiveness, among all others. Her experience battling the second onset of the disease may have led to further growth, including a recognition that she would need the support of her network of friends in Indiana if she was to be happy after her girls left her home.
According to research (Tedeschi and Calhoun, 2014), post-traumatic growth goes beyond resilience. By actively searching for good in something terrible, people can use adversity as a catalyst for advancing to a higher level of psychological functioning. Victims of trauma need not succumb to it: if they accept the tragedy as irreversible, embrace the grief process, and receive care, they can experience growth in their personal strength, relationships, spiritual beliefs, appreciation for life, and new possibilities.
My hope is that SM's daughters seek out the kind of support that can help them turn their tragedy into personal triumph: their mother could not wish for a greater legacy.