These are my thoughts, need to get off my mind...we discussed victimology, many threads ago. My biggest memory has come back to slap me in the face...I hope you’ll just roll and scroll...others may offer insight.
One of my biggest takeaways, the lower the risk factor, the closer the interaction between victim and perp. We felt this to be significant in this case as SM had a low risk lifestyle. I totally agreed with this, yet I didn’t know how to factor in her solo bike rides.
To be clear, on this, I am not accusing JP, sleuthing, etc. I do feel we need to revisit briefly and reassess the risk level, and so on...
the reason this is bothering me... My youngest daughter... my family has been in the low low risk range until last weekend, that changed in a matter of hours.
She answered a desperate text in the early hours, from a desperate friend... short story, abusive situation, 2 month old baby, and grandmom...know many here can relate to this...we had planned shopping together, ( new home), so we carried on, police escort, for belongings, etc. while we shopped....weapon, threats, and so on, my daughter’s reassurance to me, “he’s dumb and lazy”...we here know the statistics, and examples...my daughter did nothing wrong or careless, and still? Baby certainly didn’t create situation....
I felt extremely fearful for my daughter, as well as myself, and the family.
How often do innocent people get sucked into someone else’s risk?
Relevance; we don’t know if BM had a habit of trying to help people, we don’t know any of this, we only have one verifiable incident, obviously, he was considered and ruled out by LE, SM certainly seems to have been the sort to reach out to people, are there others?
I continue to feel a certain “random” or more correctly, low interaction/ connection to SM. This is the type case, hardest to solve.
BM is just too easy, JMVHO.
I’m a bit distracted, and tbh, using this forum to keep mind occupied, but due to its very nature, WS is not the place to do this. I’ll be off and on forum, not productive...am not whimping out, I value everyone’s insight, just difficult now, and I promise to be back...