justus4all
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I was watching a show about Shawn Hornbeck yesterday. His parents were talking about how much guilty they felt. They regret they had. "I wish I would not have let him ride his new bike." "Why did we buy him that new bike?" Even though logically they knew they did nothing wrong. He had rode his bike many other times and came home. They still blamed themselves for letting him ride his bike that day. Just because if they had not let him, he would be safe at home wtih them.
I've heard other parents of missing chidren talk about their guilt/rgegret. I've done it in situations where I did nothing wrong, just wished something had not happened. It is normal, natural to say "If only I had" or "I wish."
That made me realize why I've been so supsicious of Ron, his Mom TN and his GGma Sykes and saw Misty as more of the fall girl to cover for Ron. I'm not talking about other possible players because I did not see them in interviews the first month or so and did not know many of them existed until recently.
I have never heard Ron talk about any guilt or regret. Just over and over "I was at work." Ron never saying he did anything wrong, he was at work makes me question him. Because the only way I can understand not speaking about guilt or regret is because you are guilty. A guilty person cannot admit any guilty, any regret, only innocence because they do not want people to see their guilty. An innocent person does not care what people think, they can and do freely express their guilt and regret because they wished they would have done something different so they would not be going thruogh this now They never even think of others seeing them as guilty because their guilt is not about what happened but what they could have done so it would never have happened.
Same thing with TN. I could be wrong. But I do not remember TN ever saying she wished she would have done anything differently. IMO, I've never heard her talk about when Misty wanted her to babysit that she wished she had. That would be a normal thing to say because if she had watched Haleigh, maybe Haleigh wouldd still be here. I could be wrong and maybe missed it. But I just don't remember and the search I did of "Teresa Neves" and "I wish, I did not find it." She did have a lot of wishes but none about before Haleigh went missing, just after. "I wish I knew what happened." "I wish they did (have a suspect.)"
I've never heard GGma Sykes state any regrets or guilt. She talks about going to the MH that night. Again, IMO it would be normal to say something like "I wished I would have stayed with those kids or taken those kids." Again, normal because if she had, maybe Haleigh would still be here.
Misty however has expressed regret:
CROSLIN: "Yes, that`s -- I just didn`t hear it. And I wish I did because I wouldn`t let no one take her.
UNIDENTIFIED FEMALE: Are you blaming herself?
CROSLIN: I just know, like -- I feel like that, you know, I wish that they would have took me instead of her, you know, because I could have fought. You know, she`s only 5. She can`t really do anything. And I just wish they would have took me instead of her! What do they want with a little 5-year-old?
I am not saying that Misty is completely innocent. I just always have always felt that Misty agreed or was forced to be the fall girl while the other 3 covered up and set up Ron's alibi. Becasue even though they cannot go back and change anything, it is normal to wish they could.
Bolded by me.....Remember what Ron had written on his truck???? ONLY GOD CAN JUDGE ME...(something almost those words)...Would the innocent have that statement on their vehicle???,...Hmmmmm....This wording on his truck has always stayed in my mind...Would the innocent, in a child's homocide, think about God "judging them"???? ...innocent enough to display that message on their vehicle????...How many C/C families have put that message ON THEIR vehicles...????? ONLY Ron?????.....all in my own opinion...