I too agree with your above post and in My life I have found that ppl are much quicker to point out the negatives than they are to come to your defense. As in the fact that I believe that ppl would have much more quickly come out to REFUTE/DISPROVE RCs alibi of being at PDM from 5pm-3am on the nite of Haleigh's disappearance(Especially if what so many have said is true that alot of the ppl that RC worked with at PDM were mad or didn't like him{and 1 of the posters here at WS actually looked up&called a co worker of RC&her report of the phone call was that the co worker called RC an SOB, but her report of the convo mentioned NOT A WORD refuting RCs alibi})This would have made it all the more likely for 1 or more to have easily REFUTED his alibi and in 15mos, thats not happened.
One other thing that of course is JMHO is what RC did that last morning (2-9-2009) that really spoke volumes to me as to just how much little Haleigh was his heart&shows that for her he would go literally "out of his way" to make his little Miss Haleigh happy and it is also corroborated by others statements such as Chelsea Croslin's that stated that RC would always have Haleighs hair cutely fixed, for example w/matching, bows, socks, with her little outfits.That she would step out in the mornings looking as if she'd just left the beauty parlor and was on her way to a fashion show. That backs up the statement that the morning of the 9th that none of the outfits that were at RCs house were what Haleigh "wanted" to wear that day to school and that RC drove all way to Wetlaka to GGS to get her the specific outfit that Haleigh "wanted" to wear to school that day. Now does that say or mean or show that he was the best father ever? No, but what it says to me is that this little girl was this man's heart, his pride&evidently it brought him joy to see her happily dressed cute in her little "girlie" outfits and not only did he take the time and put in the effort to see that this little girl was not just "appropriately" dressed but dressed in exactly what Haleigh "wanted" to wear,that in a way Haleigh kinda ruled, as in what she wanted, daddy got for her. Which segways directly into another Humble Opinion of mine, that MC was infact jealous of Haleigh and RCs relationship and that MC competed with that precious little 5 year old girl.And God knows what that competiveness, jealousy& envy played a part in MC possibly with FULL Knowledge allowing to be done to and with that precious child that was her daddy's heart
ETA: My opinion of how I feel RC adored&loved his daughter in no way negates the obvious recklessness this man chose to live his life, but NEVER do I think he intentionally or even accidentally as some theorize,he harmed his little girl, NEVER. But of course this is MOO and when WHOMEVER ARE THE PERPS ARE BROUGHT TO JUSTICE,if I am proven to be COMPLETELY wrong, I WILL HAVE NO PROBLEM OR HESITATION OF FULLY ADMITTING I AM WRONG,Because my #1 goal is and has and always will be swift and powerful justice for ALL INVOLVED in this precious child's life being taken.