Tayway you have been trying to claim that Dotta and I are victim blaming but that is not what we are about. We love the sweet Caroline that we have learnt about through the media as much as you do. In fact, I have never thought of C from what we have been told of her as a victim until she was murdered.
I am sure Dotta and I love CC as much as you do but what you do not seem to even understand or accept is that anyone, including me, can be fooled by a narcissist and narcissism is what drives B to do what he has done. But it is never an excuse.
Tayaway said: "Mental illness is not an excuse for abuse - ever."
Narcissism is not even treated as a mental illness or mitigating factor in most trials so, don't worry his sentence will not be reduced because of his narcissism.
Tayaway said: "No, B is responsible for killing C. eta: If mental illness or a disorder were responsible, why is it he never killed a family member or co-worker? Why didn't he control people other than his wife?"
Of course B is responsible for killing C by manual strangulation even while she was asleep which is an abhorrent and personal act for such a coward to do.
B is not a serial killer. IMO he is a sociopath not a psychopath.
Tayaway said: "Why didn't B choose a family member or co-worker to kill or control?"
Narcissists crave attention, adoration, admiration, affection and affirmation ( I call it the 5As) so if they are not getting it from the one they are most involved with for their self-esteem, they can go into a narcissistic rage which can build up to murder. B was expecting to receive his 5As from CC as he had invested so much time and energy into her already that when she announced to him that night that she was looking for alternative accommodation and wanted to divorce him, his reaction was narcissistic rage which led to C's demise.
