Hi guys! I was referred here over by Anti-K. I am a strong believer in RDI, but would love to get in the head of an IDI and understand their views and where they are coming from. I am sure many of the questions I'll ask have been addressed in the 84 pages of this thread; but for the sake of time (I'll get to it!), I'd just like to put them down here. If they have been answered elsewhere on the forum, feel free to link me to the post.
(Excuse my formatting, too, as I'm writing this from my iPad).
Post of mine in another thread, formatted and snipped for relevancy:
Undoubtedly, whatever happened to JBR that night was tragic. But if IDI did it, why did they not bring their own RN? What about the pineapple? but the fact the RN & murder weapon were concocted of things found around the house is suspicious. What else would have they used? It'd be easy to hide rope and duct tape somewhere in that house (maybe the golf bag?). So I don't think the RN contradicts anything in the case ... if RDI. They only seem to support the claim (imo). If the rope & duct tape were found in the house it would have cast extreme suspicion on the family (how did the intruder find this rope? why do you have these things, etc.). One more thing to touch lightly on, if IDI did it, why did they remove everything (sans flashlight and RN)? If IDI took all their things, you'd think they'd grab the ransom note too -- now that would be a new wormhole for the Ramsey family. I feel like I keep veering off topic but I truly value your input AK, as I am trying to understand the IDI theory better, and get in the head of people who follow it. So thanks for your time!
1. I'll give into the theory that someone broke in while the Ramsey family were having dinner with the White family. So that will give time for an intruder to roam around freely, get to know the layout, etc. But why would they note bring their own RN? Why such a long, rambling RN?
2. Why leave the RN at the home, with the body? Why not take either/or? They could have still collected the ransom money. Or have taken the note back with them (as they took the rope, duct tape, etc. but left the flashlight and RN. This intruder(s) seemed very limber and evasive. They managed to roam around the house without leaving evidence behind -- surely removing the body of a small little girl wouldn't prove difficult. Taking either/or/both would really, truly create a nightmare for the Ramsey's -- isn't that what they wanted? In addition to money?
3. The pineapple? This is one thing that I need most help understanding (hell, even from an RDI perspective the pineapple is boggling!)
4. The call that never came. Sure, we can chalk this up to the Ramsey's having invited every Tom, Dick, and Harry to the home, but if you were a kidnapper, wouldn't you maybe call and say "your daughter has been killed?"
I know people go back and forth saying if RDI it made no sense for the RN and the body to be in the house, but I think that goes both ways. If IDI did it, it makes no sense either. Their end game seemed to have been money, which they still could have collected.
IMO, the kidnapping seems very sloppy and unprepared. If there were a stun gun, I'm pretty sure it would knock out a sleeping child in moments, rendering her unconscious. What about the head blow? I don't think an intruder(s) armed with a stun gun would need to harm her. They would probably try everything to NOT hurt her. What I want to get most is: why the head blow? why the pineapple? I'd think feeding her pineapple would be a huge risk...
Anyway, I have many more questions and thoughts, and I hope I'm not breaking any rules (since this is strictly IDI thread); but I really want to understand another perspective on the case. I'm gonna stop my thoughts here (for now -- possibly more questions later!) as I really don't want to veer into RDI territory in your thread. Thanks in advanced, everyone, for sharing your input with me. I hope my post and questions aren't too out of line. If there is a more appropriate thread, I'll post my questions there.