Female stalker profile:
Spying on you.
Following you.
Driving by your house, place of work, school or other locations where youre likely to be.
Tracing your whereabouts, activities and other relationships on Facebook, Twitter and other social media.
Hacking into your computer, email, Facebook accounts, etc. (i.e., electronic stalking).
Creating a false identity to gain access to your Facebook/social media pages or enlisting a friend to do so.
Stealing your post mail.
Going through your trash.
Breaking into your car, home or office.
Seeking out your friends, family and colleagues to talk about you/get information about you.
Searching for information about you by means other than asking you for it.
Threatening to harm/kill herself.
Threatening to harm/kill you.
Threatening to harm/kill your children.
Threatening to harm/kill your new wife/girlfriend, children, family members or friends.
Threatening to harm/kill a pet.
Threatening your job and your reputation.
Threatening your freedom by making false allegations to the police.
Threatening to/destroying your property or your loved ones property.
Sending you unwanted gifts.
Violating protective orders.
Verbally abusing you.
Physically abusing you.
Psychologically abusing you.
Vandalizing your property or a loved ones property.
Threatening to divulge information that would be harmful to you.
Blackmailing you.
Holding you physically or blocking your egress to force you to speak with/listen to her.
Taking you someplace against your will to force you to talk with her.
Forcing you or tricking you into having sex.
Calling you repeatedly to discuss the relationship or showing up on your doorstep uninvited to discuss the relationship.
Showing up uninvited to your home, school or place of work to see you.
Invading your personal space by standing too close or brushing against you.
Doing unrequested favors.
Insisting that you be friends.
Seeking physical proximity by applying for jobs where you work, joining your gym, church, professional/social/sports groups or clubs, moving into your neighborhood or building, etc.
Manipulating/coercing you into dating or rekindling the relationship.
Making exaggerated expressions of affection to you and your friends and family (e.g., saying , I love you within a few days/weeks of knowing you or after the break-up; doing unwanted favors, giving your friends and family gifts, etc.)
Befriending your current romantic partner in order to harm the relationship and/or monitor you.
Telling stories about you to family, friends and loved ones to show how well she knows you.
Befriending your friends to get close to you.
Enlisting your friends to intercede on her behalf to talk or be involved with her.
Trying to destroy your other relationshipsboth platonic and intimate.
Calling you repeatedly and hanging up.
Repeatedly texting/emailing/leaving voicemails.
Sending photos of herself or of the two of you or posting photos of the two of you together on Facebook and other social networks.
Writing about you or tweeting about you.
Smearing and defaming you online to get your attention or to punish you.
Objectifying you so that she can abuse, attack, malign and hurt you without feeling empathy or remorse.
Leaving or sending threatening objects (e.g., marked up photos of you, photos taken without your knowledge, pornography, weapons, drugs, bizarre objects like an animal heart or soiled feminine hygiene product, etc.)
Stealing your personal objects to possess a part of you.
http://www.shrink4men.com/2011/02/1...ecklist-of-stalking-and-harassment-behaviors/
i want to bump this because it is better than the one I posted. And to add to it, here are 12 traits of a domestic abuser (sound familiar? Just change the "him" to "her"):
An abuser is typically:
1. Charming.
Initially, he showers his woman with praise, adoration, and attention. His courtship is sweet and intense filled with phrases such as, I cant live without you. He quickly pushes for an exclusive relationship or engagement.
2. Jealous.
He views other men as a threat to the relationship and accuses you of flirting with everyone from his brother to the mailman. I know you are looking at him. The irony is that he often is the one who is cheating.
3. Manipulative.
This man is very intelligent. He knows how to detect your weak spots, and he uses your vulnerability and past pain to his advantage. You were abused as a kid because you are so ugly.
4. Controlling.
He wants to know where you are going and who you are with at all times. He may check the mileage on your car or follow you to the grocery store. He often refuses to allow you to work because you might meet someone.
5. A Victim.
His poor choices are everyone elses fault. When he loses his job, gets into a fight, or a business deal falls through, its always because of the other person. He is never at fault. You make me hit you.
6. Narcissistic.
The whole world revolves around him. As the little woman who is beneath him, it is your job to meet his every need. He is the master; you are the unworthy slave. Its invigorating for him to know that everyone around him walks on eggshells.
7. Inconsistent.
Mood swings are a common trait for an abuser. One minute he seems happy and sweet, the next he is pounding his fist.
8. Critical.
No matter how hard you try you will never be able to satisfy this kind of man. He thinks nothing of degrading and verbally assaulting you. You are a stupid, fat, disgusting tramp. You can never leave me. No other man would have you.
9. Disconnected.
His main goal is to isolate his victim from family and friends so that you are totally dependant on him. Your family causes too much trouble for us. I dont want you seeing them anymore.
10. Hypersensitive.
The slightest offense sends him ranting. Everyone is out to get him.
11. Vicious and cruel.
A significant number of abusers harm children and animals as well as a partner. Inflicting pain and intimidating others is what gives him power. Ill kill you before Ill let you go. If I cant have you, no one will.
12. Insincerely repentant.
He will swear to never hit you again. But unless he receives professional help and strong accountability its very unlikely that he will change.
http://www.cbn.com/family/marriage/petherbridge_abusertraits.aspx
I think it's clear who the abuser was in this relationship and it wasn't Travis.