RoughlyCollie
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Yes, and it seems to me that the strangeness of the place would have made her less apt to venture out. I guess it depends on the child, and we don't know much about Madeleine's personality or habits.
Anyway, these are just my thoughts on why the mother would immediately think Madeleine was kidnapped.
This is the first time I've heard of parents in this strata of society leaving their children alone. Sure, I know it happens, but every time I've heard of it, the parent(s) are druggies or prostitutes or somehow fully caught up in a disreputable lifestyle.
A million people could post on here that it was normal for parents with their cultural/educational/socioeconomic background to do this, and I still wouldn't agree that it was either smart or responsible parenting.
I live in a small, safe town with hardly any crime. We have a 90 pound dog. I will leave my 13 year old triplets at home while I go grocery shopping, but only if at least 2 of them are there, along with the dog.
There are too many things that can happen to toddlers who are left alone, or not watched carefully. We had locks on our toilet seats to prevent a head-heavy toddler from leaning over the toilet and falling in and drowning, for example.
I may be more of a safety nut than some parents because I had triplets and then one more child born 1.5 years later. I had to fully gear up for childproofing and childcare because it is hard to keep one's eye on 4 little kids at the same time. (The minute I had to change a diaper, the 3 remaining kids would giggle and run into another room, just to tease me.) For years, we'd hire 2 babysitters if we went out, which was seldom, so that one sitter wouldn't be overwhelmed by the 4 kids.
But safety nut or not, there is no way I can be persuaded that it is reasonable to leave such small kids alone for any amount of time.
Madeleine could have wandered off or she could have been kidnapped. The police seem pretty sure she was kidnapped at this point, though.
Anyway, these are just my thoughts on why the mother would immediately think Madeleine was kidnapped.
This is the first time I've heard of parents in this strata of society leaving their children alone. Sure, I know it happens, but every time I've heard of it, the parent(s) are druggies or prostitutes or somehow fully caught up in a disreputable lifestyle.
A million people could post on here that it was normal for parents with their cultural/educational/socioeconomic background to do this, and I still wouldn't agree that it was either smart or responsible parenting.
I live in a small, safe town with hardly any crime. We have a 90 pound dog. I will leave my 13 year old triplets at home while I go grocery shopping, but only if at least 2 of them are there, along with the dog.
There are too many things that can happen to toddlers who are left alone, or not watched carefully. We had locks on our toilet seats to prevent a head-heavy toddler from leaning over the toilet and falling in and drowning, for example.
I may be more of a safety nut than some parents because I had triplets and then one more child born 1.5 years later. I had to fully gear up for childproofing and childcare because it is hard to keep one's eye on 4 little kids at the same time. (The minute I had to change a diaper, the 3 remaining kids would giggle and run into another room, just to tease me.) For years, we'd hire 2 babysitters if we went out, which was seldom, so that one sitter wouldn't be overwhelmed by the 4 kids.
But safety nut or not, there is no way I can be persuaded that it is reasonable to leave such small kids alone for any amount of time.
Madeleine could have wandered off or she could have been kidnapped. The police seem pretty sure she was kidnapped at this point, though.
She was in a strange country in a strange room with no parental guidance. What she "normally" would have done may not be what happened that evening.