I'm not Banika of course, but think about this. If she stops 'supporting' D'Andre, she has to admit to herself she willingly handed her daughter over to a man who beat her child to death. That alone is a tough pill to swallow, imo, as with it comes the reality if she had only made the choice to not allow Bianca to spend the night - there was no court order -she would be safe and alive today. And her mind would have to go to a place considering her childs last moments, with a man who has been a life long family friend. How this life long family friend lied - to all of them. Carried on a charade to not only the entire community, but the entire country as we all heard his story about how his daughter was kidnapped by car jackers.
It's a lot to absorb when LE has stated publicly they think it's possible the childs body will not be recovered.
I can't knock her so to speak for having a hard time swallowing that pill. It would be an incredibly difficult position for anyone to come to terms with, imo. If years from now, she felt the same, I might feel differently. But right now, wow, almost 5 mo's after her daughter disappeared, I'm still ok with giving her time to let this all sink in.
I just realized it will be 5 months tomorrow Bianca has been missing. :cry: