VERDICT WATCH NY - Dr. Mary Yoder, 60, fatally poisoned, Whitesboro, 22 July 2015

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Day 6 set to begin @ 10 a.m. today. Adam Yoder, Mary Yoder's son, expected to testify today.

Prosecution has arrived carrying a large bin filled with evidence. Defense attorney Frank Policelli is also here.

Yoder family has taken their seats in the courtroom.

Julia LeBlanc WUTR‏ @jleblanc_WUTR 6m6 minutes ago
Kaitlyn Conley and her defense attorney, Frank Policelli, head into chambers


Julia LeBlanc WUTR‏ @jleblanc_WUTR 6m6 minutes ago
Judge says we're a little late because they had to deal with "legal issues"
 
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[video=twitter;922468459174420483]https://twitter.com/jleblanc_WUTR/status/922468459174420483[/video]

[video=twitter;922469287943720962]https://twitter.com/RoccoLaDuca/status/922469287943720962[/video]

Rocco LaDuca‏ @RoccoLaDuca 4m4 minutes ago
Adam says he met Kaitlyn at her HS graduation in 2011 & started dating that fall, then broke up July 2013

Julia LeBlanc WUTR‏ @jleblanc_WUTR 4m4 minutes ago
Adam worked as office manager @ his parent's business, CFC, until fall 2013. Says he would use computers in office

Julia LeBlanc WUTR‏ @jleblanc_WUTR 4m4 minutes ago
Adam Y.: covered for Conley @ CFC twice while she was on vacation after she started working summer/ fall 2013

Julia LeBlanc WUTR‏ @jleblanc_WUTR 4m4 minutes ago
Adam Y.: Conley and Adam broke up for first time summer 2013 while having a conversation at the office.

Julia LeBlanc WUTR‏ @jleblanc_WUTR 1m1 minute ago
Adam Y.: Confronted Conley about possibly having sex with his friend. She denied it. Adam told his friend he doesn't want to be friends

Rocco LaDuca‏ @RoccoLaDuca 2m2 minutes ago
Adam & Kaitlyn 1st broke up July/Aug 2013 - Katy said she didn't want relationship; Adam started seeing someone else in Sept

Rocco LaDuca‏ @RoccoLaDuca 3m3 minutes ago
Adam left office in Oct 2013 after disagreements w parents, but Kaitlyn stayed as Yoders' office manager full time

Julia LeBlanc WUTR‏ @jleblanc_WUTR 2m2 minutes ago
In October 29 2013, adam told Conley he did not want to be in a relationship with her anymore

Julia LeBlanc WUTR‏ @jleblanc_WUTR 2m2 minutes ago
Adam Y.: Later, Conley broke down & told adam she wanted to get back together. Told him she aborted their baby.

Julia LeBlanc WUTR‏ @jleblanc_WUTR 2m2 minutes ago
Adam: Nov. 3- Conley texted Adam saying she had an ectopic pregnancy & was sent to the ER. Adam consoled her

Julia LeBlanc WUTR‏ @jleblanc_WUTR 2m2 minutes ago
Replying to @jleblanc_WUTR
After this, they spent more time together and began dating again
 
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Julia LeBlanc WUTR‏ @jleblanc_WUTR 2m2 minutes ago
Adam says the rel. ended in August 2014. Later, adam "snapped and slapped her a few times," while at a party

Julia LeBlanc WUTR‏ @jleblanc_WUTR 3m3 minutes ago
Replying to @jleblanc_WUTR
Adam says Conley was flirting with a number of his friends

Julia LeBlanc WUTR‏ @jleblanc_WUTR 1m1 minute ago
Adam: accepted a loan of $12,000 from Conley to pay off debts, shortly after he requested a loan of $3,000 to buy a car

Julia LeBlanc WUTR‏ @jleblanc_WUTR 1m1 minute ago
Adam: never paid Conley back. The two were supposed to set up a bank account together

Julia LeBlanc WUTR‏ @jleblanc_WUTR 1m1 minute ago
Adam: October 2014- Conley texted him (they were not together) & accused him of rape on July 26, 2014.


Julia LeBlanc WUTR‏ @jleblanc_WUTR 1m1 minute ago
Adam says she told him he was blacked out after drinking heavily & he choked her & told her he was going to kill her

Julia LeBlanc WUTR‏ @jleblanc_WUTR 32s33 seconds ago
Conley now sobbing, defense asked for a quick break
 
  • #605
sounds like an extremely toxic relationship...
 
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[video=twitter;922476242720514048]https://twitter.com/jleblanc_WUTR/status/922476242720514048[/video]


As Adam begins discussing his alleged rape of Kaitlyn on July 26, 2014, she breaks down crying in court- judge allows recess

Adam sitting with his head down as we wait for Conley to re-enter the courtroom
 
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Julia LeBlanc WUTR‏ @jleblanc_WUTR 4m4 minutes ago
Conley has returned. She wipes away her tears and smiles at defense attorney, Frank Policelli

Julia LeBlanc WUTR‏ @jleblanc_WUTR 2m2 minutes ago
Yoder talking about the July incident. Says he blacked out-- visited Conley's home later.

Julia LeBlanc WUTR‏ @jleblanc_WUTR 51s52 seconds ago
A Yoder says next morning, he and Conley woke up together and had consensual sex. No visible injuries on Conley

Rocco LaDuca‏ @RoccoLaDuca 30s31 seconds ago
Adam admitted to "slapping" Kaitlyn after they were both drunk - he was upset she was flirting w other guys at party
 
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Julia LeBlanc WUTR‏ @jleblanc_WUTR 46s46 seconds ago
A. Yoder: received texts from Conley describing the rape. He says it was "very graphic."

Rocco LaDuca‏ @RoccoLaDuca 40s40 seconds ago
While dating summer 2014, Adam was having $ troubles - Kaitlyn offered to loan him $15,000 - he accepted, & they went to bank

Julia LeBlanc WUTR‏ @jleblanc_WUTR 2m2 minutes ago
Adam says he remembers a "slap" but not sure who slapped who

Julia LeBlanc WUTR‏ @jleblanc_WUTR 1m1 minute ago
Conley told adam about the alleged rape in mid October
 
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Julia LeBlanc WUTR‏ @jleblanc_WUTR 1m1 minute ago
A. Yoder: November 2014- Conley called him & wanted to talk about the rape allegations. Long convo. Adam asking if she was lying

Julia LeBlanc WUTR‏ @jleblanc_WUTR 31s32 seconds ago
A. Yoder: found a backup of her phone. Recovered texts of hers. Thought the rape is a lie @ this point

Julia LeBlanc WUTR‏ @jleblanc_WUTR 2m2 minutes ago
Adam: Saw texts that showed she may have slept with his friend after all

Julia LeBlanc WUTR‏ @jleblanc_WUTR 1m1 minute ago
Adam & Conley now agreed to meet up once a week for tea
 
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Julia LeBlanc WUTR‏ @jleblanc_WUTR 53s53 seconds ago
A. Yoder: again on Nov. 28 of 2014, Conley texts him about the alleged rape. Says he "blood choked" her

Rocco LaDuca‏ @RoccoLaDuca 2m2 minutes ago
Adam ended dating Aug 2014, then on Oct 18 Kaitlyn accused Adam of raping her July 26- but Adam says he was blacked out drunk

Julia LeBlanc WUTR‏ @jleblanc_WUTR 2m2 minutes ago
Later, Adam told Conley he found her old texts. After this convo, she never brought up the rape again
 
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tweets are coming in slowly but I am riveted by this testimony...

Julia LeBlanc WUTR‏ @jleblanc_WUTR 2m2 minutes ago
Adam: April 2015, had lunch with Conley. She gave him a supplement as a gift.

Julia LeBlanc WUTR‏ @jleblanc_WUTR 2m2 minutes ago
Adam: Conley said make sure you take it consistently. Helps you focus. Conley told him she'd been taking it too

Julia LeBlanc WUTR‏ @jleblanc_WUTR 45s45 seconds ago
Adam: Took 1 capsule from Alpha brain supplement container few days after. Took two pills @ a later date, he woke up & wasn't feeling well

Julia LeBlanc WUTR‏ @jleblanc_WUTR 2m2 minutes ago
Adam was vomiting, had diarrhea, went to urgent care

Julia LeBlanc WUTR‏ @jleblanc_WUTR 1m1 minute ago
Adam stared experiencing severe back and abdomen pain. His dad, William Yoder then took him to St. Elizabeth's. was there for 10 hrs

Julia LeBlanc WUTR‏ @jleblanc_WUTR 4m4 minutes ago
Adam: doctors assumed he had a GI bug

Julia LeBlanc WUTR‏ @jleblanc_WUTR 3m3 minutes ago
A. Yoder: Following week, was still throwing up. Pain didn't go away. Missed school. Laid in bed awake for 6 days doing nothing
 
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Rocco LaDuca‏ @RoccoLaDuca 3m3 minutes ago
When Katy calls Adam in Nov 2014 to discuss rape, he says he believes she's lying & won't discuss

Rocco LaDuca‏ @RoccoLaDuca 1m1 minute ago
When prosecutor asked why Adam still hung out w Kaitlyn after this, defense objected before Adam was able to answer .. ???
 
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Julia LeBlanc WUTR‏ @jleblanc_WUTR 1m1 minute ago
A. Yoder: Conley texted him asking him about his condition. Asked, Does the dr. Think it's still the GI bug?

Julia LeBlanc WUTR‏ @jleblanc_WUTR 47s48 seconds ago
Adam says he asked her if she poisoned him in a joking way. Conley responded saying she'd never hurt him

Rocco LaDuca‏ @RoccoLaDuca 40s40 seconds ago
After taking pills, in April 2015 Adam became sick w diarrhea, vomiting (like what his mom later experienced in July)
 
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Julia LeBlanc WUTR‏ @jleblanc_WUTR 1m1 minute ago
A. Yoder: Mother's Day- had 1 beer @ house. Gave his mom a gift the day before

Julia LeBlanc WUTR‏ @jleblanc_WUTR 36s36 seconds ago
Adam: Got into disagreement with mom later. He was visibly upset that day. Frustrated over being sick/ losing 20 pnds.

Julia LeBlanc WUTR‏ @jleblanc_WUTR 53s53 seconds ago
Adam says he took it out on his mom. Told her he didn't want to see his parents as frequently. Adam is getting emotional

Julia LeBlanc WUTR‏ @jleblanc_WUTR 16s16 seconds ago
Adam: apologized to his mom shortly after those texts and told her he loved her
 
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Julia LeBlanc WUTR‏ @jleblanc_WUTR 55s55 seconds ago
Adam: Conley texted him saying she needed to pay him back with $23,000 immediately. It was an unpleasant convo-it was $15,000 before

Julia LeBlanc WUTR‏ @jleblanc_WUTR 45s45 seconds ago
They met up for tea. Adam says he can't give $ back now. She broke down and said she was scared he'd be leaving soon

Julia LeBlanc WUTR‏ @jleblanc_WUTR 2m2 minutes ago
A. Yoder: June 21, 2015-Father's Day. No problems/ arguments on that day

Julia LeBlanc WUTR‏ @jleblanc_WUTR 1m1 minute ago
Adam: July 15, 2015- left for his sister, Liana Hegde's house in L.I. to visit for his niece's birthday. Staying there a while#ConleyRetrial
 
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Julia LeBlanc WUTR‏ @jleblanc_WUTR 41s41 seconds ago
Adam: called Conley on way to hospital. "She's the first person I thought to call."

Julia LeBlanc WUTR‏ @jleblanc_WUTR 1m1 minute ago
When at hospital, Adam went to see his mom. Conley waited in lobby.

Julia LeBlanc WUTR‏ @jleblanc_WUTR 1m1 minute ago
Adam told Conley she didn't have to stay @ hospital. She responded saying "Your mother isn't just important to you."

Julia LeBlanc WUTR‏ @jleblanc_WUTR 2m2 minutes ago
Left hospital again w Conley to pick up a painting he made for mom for Mother's Day. Held it "hoping in some way it would help my mother."

Julia LeBlanc WUTR‏ @jleblanc_WUTR 50s50 seconds ago
Adam & Conley went back to his house after his mom's death. He was crying & she was consoling him for a few hours
 
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Did they ever test the supplement Conley gave Adam? It doesn't sound like they did?

When was it again that the gmail account in Adam's name was set up? Wasn't it right around the time she accused him of rape?

Imo Conley tried everything to hurt Adam after they broke up. Flirted/slept with his friends, accused him of rape, set up the gmail account in his name and ordered the poison, then tried to poison him. When this didn't work she poisoned his mom instead.


Thank you Harmony for bringing the tweets over! Extremely interesting.
 
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Did they ever test the supplement Conley gave Adam? It doesn't sound like they did?

When was it again that the gmail account in Adam's name was set up? Wasn't it right around the time she accused him of rape?

Imo Conley tried everything to hurt Adam after they broke up. Flirted/slept with his friends, accused him of rape, set up the gmail account in his name and ordered the poison, then tried to poison him. When this didn't work she poisoned his mom instead.


Thank you Harmony for bringing the tweets over! Extremely interesting.

I wish we had a timeline to look at the sequence of events. I don't think they tested the supplements she gave him but they should have.
 
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Julia LeBlanc WUTR‏ @jleblanc_WUTR 5m5 minutes ago
Adam: Celebration of Life 7/25/15 held @ his parents house in mom's garden.His demeanor "tried to be happy & honor the spirit of my mother."
 
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Borderline Personality Disorder had crossed my mind (another similarity with Arias). In the disorder, idealization often alternates with devaluation. This pattern seems to appear in Adam's and Conley's unstable relationship as outlined by Lisi in closing.

Conley played mind games to manipulate Adam to come back (long disturbing text about ectopic pregnancy). When Adam left she went into devaluation mode and created the 'adamisgay' password and started to scheme how to get revenge. Yet she still wanted him even though she hated him. This is really twisted but the 'I hate you don't leave me' is a hallmark of the disorder. Then it became a plan to make Adam vulnerable and weak in an attempt to get him back by comforting him (nursing him back to health when ill???). When making him sick was not enough she thought she had to take it up a notch and hurt someone in his family. This plan was short lived as they were intimate the night of the memorial but the relationship ended soon thereafter.

All just my opinion as I am not an expert. I wish the prosecution would have brought in an expert like Dr. Janeen DeMarte, as Juan Martinez did, to delve into Conley's pathology and to bolster the motive outlined in closing.

https://www.verywell.com/devaluation-and-idealization-in-bpd-425291

https://www.amazon.com/Hate-You-Don...coding=UTF8&psc=1&refRID=Z9TKWF7XRY08C064S14D

bumping my theory from the first trial...
 
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