REVISIT Terri was supposed to drive Kyron to Eugene that day

[BeanE]

This came out in the pressers that Desiree and Tony did from Medford when Kaine wasn't there. Both of them talked about it in the press conference videos. We discussed it a lot because of the conflict with Kaine's statements that they were going for ice cream and then going to play WII.

I can't remember which thread we discussed it in. Probably an Advanced Search for keyword fishing would pop it up.

 

[For The Kids]

This came out in the pressers that Desiree and Tony did from Medford when Kaine wasn't there. Both of them talked about it in the press conference videos. We discussed it a lot because of the conflict with Kaine's statements that they were going for ice cream and then going to play WII.

I can't remember which thread we discussed it in. Probably an Advanced Search for keyword fishing would pop it up.

Bean in all honesty it would depend. Say for Eg that Terri wasnt meant to meet Desiree til 7 or 8 that evening there would be more than enough time to go for a icecream and play WII.

 

[RoughlyCollie]

That is a really long drive. It would be 9 hours roundtrip, I am surprise they didnt meet half way. And that Kaine was not driving. Maybe he had to finish work, maybe terri has always been the commuter, which she could of said no.

At most, it is a 5 hour round trip because TH was supposed to drive Kyron to the halfway point in Eugene.

I don't think it matters why TH was going to drive Kyron that day, UNLESS that was unusual and TH insisted on doing it.

I realize that if TH got rid of Kyron, he would not have been available to be driven. So, the insistence, if any, would have had to be so she would appear to be a nice wife and SM who expected Kyron to come home from school so she could unselfishly drive him to Eugene.

 

[oceanblueeyes]

Could antimatter be the electrical project? It's interesting that the boy saw the truck in the parking lot during the same time frame that he saw Kyron. More interesting is that they don't want release the time frame.

I agree that we haven't heard anything about TH driving Kyron to his mother's that day. I do remember talk about them driving halfway to meet up for Kyron's weekend visits, but not specifically June 4. I remember KH saying they were going to go for ice cream and play games after school. And why TH in particular being the DD??

From what I have read the other boy did confirm that he saw Kyron in the gym with some of his friends looking at the science exhibits and that he also did see Terri's white truck in the parking lot. However I thought in the link I read last night stated he was told by LE not to mention the time he saw the truck.

So we really don't know if he saw the truck as he was coming into the school that morning or after, do we?

Terri must have had to meet Desiree much later in the evening.

IMO

 

[DidionFan]

This came out in the pressers that Desiree and Tony did from Medford when Kaine wasn't there. Both of them talked about it in the press conference videos. We discussed it a lot because of the conflict with Kaine's statements that they were going for ice cream and then going to play WII.

Totally! And I've been operating that they were going to get ice cream, but I forgot a previous assertion that they were going to drive Kyron down to DY....Actually, I lost this thought a while ago. Which is very bad....

ice cream at 3:00, drive to Eugene.......as the norm in this case, I'm perplexed.

All I can say is- - - - - these details bother me tremendously!! the conflict really really bothers me.

 

[mchris1024]

Why was TMH supposed to drive Kyron and not KH? I'm just wondering because he has stated that he was home in the afternoon.

I think TH cared for Kyron and his daily needs more then either of his bio parents, this case makes me so angry.

 

[DidionFan]

Anyway - the last time he was seen was around 9am, right? Where are you, dear boy???? I wish all this public familial conflict would stop,...or, PLEASE push guilty people to answers on where Kyron is - - I am beginning to lose my patience tether on everyone, LE included.

Where is this child? Kyron, where are you???

 

[Truth Prevails]

Also, I read an article recently, where it mentioned that TH's older son was supposed to be spending the weekend (or maybe it said the whole coming week) with KH & TH.

So, this could be the reason why TH agreed to do the drive--in order to pick up her oldest. I understood this was all done in Eugene, because it was a good half way point for all parties involved.

Also, I read where TH's son did arrive that evening, (June 4) (someone had driven him the full way in order for him to be with his mom); but the events were so chaotic that he went back to his grandparents.

If I come across that article, I will come back with a link.

 

[believe09]

There is no indication of when the drop off would take place, so I dont know if ice cream and Wii are necessarily conflicting...JMO. For example, my ex does not pick up our children until between 6-8PM on the weekends he sees them, depending on his work schedule. If Tony and/or Desiree worked until 5 or 530, it would be 7 or 8 before they would be able to pick up Kyron from the half way point. This would not preclude ice cream and Wii with Kaine....

 

[For The Kids]

I think TH cared for Kyron and his daily needs more then either of his bio parents, this case makes me so angry.

Kaine worked so ofc Terri would do more of his daily needs than his father or his mother that lived 4 1/2 hours away. They was a couple and couples SHOULD work together. He was earning the money so she looked after the kids whilst he worked.

However..although Terri looked after the kids this doesnt make her Mary Poppins. Not by a long way. It was reported that Terri would drive Kyron so that she could pick her own son up on the way. Personally I think that Terri wanted it this way so that Kaine and Desiree wouldnt meet.

JMO

 

[For The Kids]

Also, I read an article recently, where it mentioned that TH's older son was supposed to be spending the weekend (or maybe it said the whole coming week) with KH & TH.

So, this could be the reason why TH agreed to do the drive--in order to pick up her oldest. I understood this was all done in Eugene, because it was a good half way point for all parties involved.

Also, I read where TH's son did arrive that evening, (June 4) (someone had driven him the full way in order for him to be with his mom); but the events were so chaotic that he went back to his grandparents.

If I come across that article, I will come back with a link.

Actually no. Originally it was said the eldest boy was camping for the weekend but then it came out a couple of weeks ago from his father that on the Saturday he took him to his mothers for a pre planned week vacation. He was sent home early cos of the problems they was having there.

JMO

 

[jessicat]

Just to add...sometimes back when my hubby worked at a diff job I would do the 2.5 hour drive to pick up my stepkids, sometimes we would go together. Now that we live closer we usually go together as he gets off work with time allowing us to go together. Also when we had our little boy then sometimes I would make the drive so he could stay at home with the baby, giving me a little down time even if I was in a car driving, it gave me time to my own thoughts. They may have had some kind of arrangement of that sort and if as one poster said she was to pick up her son (TH) then maybe she was to do the driving that day. Don't know. I know our kids DREAD the driving aspect, esp when we were 2.5 hours away, 5 hours roundtrip and that doesn't even account for bathroom breaks, food, etc. Poor Kyron..he prob was so exhausted. I always have hated that part of divorce. Sometimes parents forget the toll it takes on the kids.

 

[mchris1024]

Kaine worked so ofc Terri would do more of his daily needs than his father or his mother that lived 4 1/2 hours away. They was a couple and couples SHOULD work together. He was earning the money so she looked after the kids whilst he worked.

However..although Terri looked after the kids this doesnt make her Mary Poppins. Not by a long way. It was reported that Terri would drive Kyron so that she could pick her own son up on the way. Personally I think that Terri wanted it this way so that Kaine and Terri wouldnt meet.

JMO

Never claimed she was Mary Poppins, but I am sad that Kyron didn't have either of his bio parents at his fair that day, I work f/t and so does my husband so we divide things so ONE of us is ALWAYS there for our daughter. I think when this is ALL OVER whatever the outcome we'll learn there is much more to Kyron's little life then any of us know at this time. The drama alone had to be horrible for him and ALL FOUR parents participated in that drama. I married my husband 7 years ago I participated in drama for less then 60 days, I set boundaries and my husband deals with his ex-wife and any situations that come up, I think these folks played games and all were involved, I think DY was a scorned woman and strongly disliked TH and didn't get over that even though she was taking care of Kyron and from outside sources seemed to be doing a good job......this whole thing is a HOT MESS....

 

[Chewy]

Then why would she have him put his backpack in his classroom. I think she told him for a quick dr visit then he would return to school. Same routine every other friday, after school take the drive halfway to meet biomom.

She could have told him to go look at the display and she'd get his backpack and then they'd leave early.

She also could have told him they have a dr visit but after he saw all the displays they'd go to mom's early. I could really see this being used to lure him out of the school.

The only thing about the "just come out to the car" thing that doesn't make sense to me is she'd have no way of knowing if he told someone "Yeah my stepmom said to go out to the car" or of knowing if anyone saw her. So sometimes this puts me back up on the fence.

 

[debs]

Is it possible, or are my eyes deceiving me.....could it be possible that it's now being twisted that, because Terri was supposed to drive Kyron to Eugene (a 2 hr trip, one way) to spend the weekend with his mom and step-dad, she's STILL not a mother to Kyron, is only acting out of selfishness in order to pick up her own child, and perhaps does so in order to keep Desiree and Kaine apart.

And people wonder why Terri doesn't make a public statement. Here's an action which was attributed to her, which she in fact DIDN'T make, and it's still being used to beat the heck out of her.

 

[For The Kids]

Never claimed she was Mary Poppins, but I am sad that Kyron didn't have either of his bio parents at his fair that day, I work f/t and so does my husband so we divide things so ONE of us is ALWAYS there for our daughter. I think when this is ALL OVER whatever the outcome we'll learn there is much more to Kyron's little life then any of us know at this time. The drama alone had to be horrible for him and ALL FOUR parents participated in that drama. I married my husband 7 years ago I participated in drama for less then 60 days, I set boundaries and my husband deals with his ex-wife and any situations that come up, I think these folks played games and all were involved, I think DY was a scorned woman and strongly disliked TH and didn't get over that even though she was taking care of Kyron and from outside sources seemed to be doing a good job......this whole thing is a HOT MESS....

In all honesty i dont think the reason that Desiree dislikes Terri is because shes a scorned woman. I see nothing to indicate that at all. And while its good that you got your husband to deal with all situations it just doesnt always work that way. I know that my husband had a lot of problems trying to continue a fatherly relationship with his young daughter because of the custodial step parent and making sure we stopped him cost us many thousands of pounds in court. You are correct that Kaine didnt go to the science fair but he did see Kyrons piece before he went to work and Desiree has made it plain that she DID participate in a lot of Kyrons things. BUT she lives 4.5 hours away and has to work and do other things too. I used to go to my step childs parents evenings and take them to the Drs because my husband was working. It sure doesnt mean he didnt love his kids or didnt want to be there. Its just that he had to work like Kaine and Desiree had to.

JMO

 

[For The Kids]

Is it possible, or are my eyes deceiving me.....could it be possible that it's now being twisted that, because Terri was supposed to drive Kyron to Eugene (a 2 hr trip, one way) to spend the weekend with his mom and step-dad, she's STILL not a mother to Kyron, is only acting out of selfishness in order to pick up her own child, and perhaps does so in order to keep Desiree and Kaine apart.

And people wonder why Terri doesn't make a public statement. Here's an action which was attributed to her, which she in fact DIDN'T make, and it's still being used to beat the heck out of her.

I have step kids. I have never once called myself there mother. They have a mother and IMO shes the one who has the right to be labelled as there mother.

In this case Desiree is the mother. Not Terri.

JMO

 

[maystamper]

They would have had time after school to have ice cream and play Wii before TH drove him half-way to see DY.

Perhaps KH was to watch the baby. This give TH time to drop off Kyron and drive home or wherever. Maybe she took some side trips on the way home?? Just a thought. That would give her plenty of time to call people, stop wherever and see whomever.

 

[raeann]

This is O/T....but someone asked above.....so I will answer as simply as possible. NO, the antimatter exhibit would NOT be the same as a cool electrical one. Antimatter, in a simple explanation, deals with molecular structure. See link for those who are interested.

http://www.space.com/scienceastronomy/antimatter_sun_030929.html

 

[Truth Prevails]

Is it possible, or are my eyes deceiving me.....could it be possible that it's now being twisted that, because Terri was supposed to drive Kyron to Eugene (a 2 hr trip, one way) to spend the weekend with his mom and step-dad, she's STILL not a mother to Kyron, is only acting out of selfishness in order to pick up her own child, and perhaps does so in order to keep Desiree and Kaine apart.

And people wonder why Terri doesn't make a public statement. Here's an action which was attributed to her, which she in fact DIDN'T make, and it's still being used to beat the heck out of her.

I'm so very sorry, if you thought that is what I meant. Honestly, the fact that TH was intending to drive Kyron to meet his bio mom, would give her positive points in my mind.

I feel it would show that she is involved with the family as a unit, and willing to do her part.