I agree the parents were terrified of Jodi's wrath.
As a Morman, was there any counseling other than with a Bishop, available for a woman Jodi's age whose parents and friends seemed to think needed to get help with psychiatric issues? Tia
You get a psychologist who is LDS and gives you quasi-spiritual counseling mixed with psychology. You pay a fixed rate, not sliding scale, and it is not cheap.
This is the advice I received" "The middle way is the best with children like your son."
Me: What do you mean by 'middle' ?
LDS counselor: Halfway between the two extremes.
Me: Doesn't middle then depend on how you identify "extreme"?
LDS counselor: Yes, that's the parents' job.
Me: So the best way to raise a sociopath is whatever we think it is.
LDS counselor: Basically. You pray and get guidance for making these decisions. Are you having scripture study with your son?
Me: He has been having morning scripture study since he was a toddler, and church on Sunday. We have made all meetings a condition of living in our home and he attends until he falls asleep and we prop him up in the pew. He is STABBING boxes in the garage with kitchen knives-- this seems very dangerous behavior to me.
LDS counselor: Tell him to stop or you'll take away privileges like computer games.
Me: I don't allow a Nintendo in the house. I am concerned about the violence in his head that is represented by the stabbing.
LDS Counselor: So you are anxious? Do you have anxiety about other things in your life? Are you praying regularly and attending the temple? Establishing good prayer habits and regular temple attendance has been reported to ease anxiety for many stay at home mothers.
Me: Nothing because I have walked out.