Tangled Spaghetti
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i presumed children's names on the tattoos
I just can't grasp their attitudes towards a six year old "he's beat us up" "he's head butted me, he's kicked me". She's talking as if it's a grown man, he's a boy. Even if it were true, which it wasn't, if a six year old hits or punches you it's not going to be a big deal, they're not very strong! I just can't grasp their mentality towards a small child
I bet the tattoos are ex’s names, done early in the relationship as part of a “love bombing” strategy
I always assumed her last issues of suicide attempt jump and running away - were desperate attempts to stop her previous victims (partners) escaping her.
I agree re the 999 call - nowhere does she ask if Arthur will be ok, what can she do to save him, there was no desperation in her voice for him. The 999 call for her was purely a means to get her false narrative in asap - it’s all me me me I did this and that and it’s all Arthur’s fault…. I agree the tone is excitable and she even talks over the first aid advice to insist he did this to himself.
I honestly believe that she turned on him the minute his dad was out of the door. Dad left with the other kids and Arthur tried to run away with him, knowing exactly what torture awaits when he’s alone with Tustin. His dad is physically abusive yes - but Arthur would prefer to be with him in public than alone in the house with Tustin.
Tustin is enraged by this and the punishment for attempting to escape is being dragged upstairs and forced to swallow a slurry of salt in the bathroom. Then she hauled him downstairs to stand in hallway. I believe Arthur fell and stumbled in the stairs due to her shoving him - possibly hitting his head at the bottom. I believe this because she said that Arthur pushed her in the stairs at the hairdressers. Reverse her narrative and you get to the truth. His inability to stand properly at the bottom of the stairs would have enraged her, causing her to “lose her f******* s***” as the prosecutor so cleverly stated and beat him to death. Realising it’s gone too far and blame will be pinned on her, she sets about looking as if she was trying to help him, carrying him into the room where the camera is rolling….
The whole situation is incomprehensible to everyone, because very very few people truly understand the psychology of the twisted world of a narcissist. Narcissists create an elaborate illusory world, and where black is white and white is black, where they can do no wrong and are perfect, and where 6 year old boys are destructive monsters who require severe punishment for all manner of infractions. ET will have set about persuading all those closest to her to wholeheartedly subscribe to this illusory “reality”, they will be tested time and time again to ensure that their levels of delusion are acceptable to the narcissist. Anyone who “fails” the tests and doesn’t subscribe to the fantasy world is ruthlessly cut off, exiled. Hence both of ET and TH’s families being isolated from the couple.
ET knew exactly what she was doing. She did is all expertly, deliberately and successfully and even used the police and social workers to do her evil bidding.
Her mugshot is defiant, resolute, outraged, determined to clear herself of all blame. TH’s mugshot is gormless, stunned, he is quavering between the horrific reality of the situation of his own unwitting creation, and his delusion that ET is “Mother Teresa,” the pinnacle of womanhood and bearer of his precious unborn child.
To understand and identify the nature of a narcissist is to understand how this outcome was almost inevitable, when weak people fall into the clutches of someone so powerful and insidious, and devoid of all human sympathy. A true psychopath if there ever was one.